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Not just 1 but a handful of guys I communicate with, I may say rude things to them, and yet they still want to hook up or hang out.
For instance, I accused one of them of stealing my keys, calling him names/ calling cops on him etc and he still comes over to have fun plus dates.
One guy is always late, a little flakey, I can be really rude to him about it, when we meet, he just laughs it off and acts all OK
Another I have seen for a couple years, he hangs out/ hook up, every once in awhile I'll tell him off, and then he comes over again, says "Oh you were so lippy" and then acts OK about it.
They are quality guys too (decent good looking, nice personalities) but it seems that many just like the attention, to be called names, etc.
I admit sometimes it even adds an element of sexual excitement when doing this. It's almost like calling them names made us closer/ more comfortable with each other.
I think if you are TOO nice, people just get bored of it all..
Some people like a challenge; the unobtainable. Others like to be humiliated. Personally I don't find rude behavior appealing because it is juvenile and makes the person seem more stupid than they might really be. I'd rather spend time with someone who doesn't do stupid deliberately.
It's because you're the spitting image of Valeria Mazza. (you'll have to search that one. I get in trouble even when I post photos that aren't copyrighted)
Not just 1 but a handful of guys I communicate with, I may say rude things to them, and yet they still want to hook up or hang out.
For instance, I accused one of them of stealing my keys, calling him names/ calling cops on him etc and he still comes over to have fun plus dates.
One guy is always late, a little flakey, I can be really rude to him about it, when we meet, he just laughs it off and acts all OK
Another I have seen for a couple years, he hangs out/ hook up, every once in awhile I'll tell him off, and then he comes over again, says "Oh you were so lippy" and then acts OK about it.
They are quality guys too (decent good looking, nice personalities) but it seems that many just like the attention, to be called names, etc.
I admit sometimes it even adds an element of sexual excitement when doing this. It's almost like calling them names made us closer/ more comfortable with each other.
I think if you are TOO nice, people just get bored of it all..
You are irresistible or everyone knows it's all fun and games
Not just 1 but a handful of guys I communicate with, I may say rude things to them, and yet they still want to hook up or hang out.
For instance, I accused one of them of stealing my keys, calling him names/ calling cops on him etc and he still comes over to have fun plus dates.
One guy is always late, a little flakey, I can be really rude to him about it, when we meet, he just laughs it off and acts all OK
Another I have seen for a couple years, he hangs out/ hook up, every once in awhile I'll tell him off, and then he comes over again, says "Oh you were so lippy" and then acts OK about it.
They are quality guys too (decent good looking, nice personalities) but it seems that many just like the attention, to be called names, etc.
I admit sometimes it even adds an element of sexual excitement when doing this. It's almost like calling them names made us closer/ more comfortable with each other.
I think if you are TOO nice, people just get bored of it all..
Good to know your using the valuable time of call the police to add an element of sexual excitement to your life.
Not just 1 but a handful of guys I communicate with, I may say rude things to them, and yet they still want to hook up or hang out.
For instance, I accused one of them of stealing my keys, calling him names/ calling cops on him etc and he still comes over to have fun plus dates.
One guy is always late, a little flakey, I can be really rude to him about it, when we meet, he just laughs it off and acts all OK
Another I have seen for a couple years, he hangs out/ hook up, every once in awhile I'll tell him off, and then he comes over again, says "Oh you were so lippy" and then acts OK about it.
They are quality guys too (decent good looking, nice personalities) but it seems that many just like the attention, to be called names, etc.
I admit sometimes it even adds an element of sexual excitement when doing this. It's almost like calling them names made us closer/ more comfortable with each other.
I think if you are TOO nice, people just get bored of it all..
Men will put up with a lot in order to get laid--especially with someone who's a "sure thing."
In my opinion, it's rather odd and immature behavior, but if it's what gets all parties involved going, I guess that's all that matters in the end. To each their own?
Not just 1 but a handful of guys I communicate with, I may say rude things to them, and yet they still want to hook up or hang out.
For instance, I accused one of them of stealing my keys, calling him names/ calling cops on him etc and he still comes over to have fun plus dates.
One guy is always late, a little flakey, I can be really rude to him about it, when we meet, he just laughs it off and acts all OK
Another I have seen for a couple years, he hangs out/ hook up, every once in awhile I'll tell him off, and then he comes over again, says "Oh you were so lippy" and then acts OK about it.
They are quality guys too (decent good looking, nice personalities) but it seems that many just like the attention, to be called names, etc.
I admit sometimes it even adds an element of sexual excitement when doing this. It's almost like calling them names made us closer/ more comfortable with each other.
I think if you are TOO nice, people just get bored of it all..
It is a fascinating thing. I think it is human nature.
I do admit when a certain woman gives me the 3rd degree, I feel some kind of attraction behind all of the frustration, but it depends on the woman. If she throws insults my way because I am leaving and she wants me to stay, I do admit it does awaken that masochistic side of me.
But only a small extent of it. If it gets too extreme, then I will just run and not look back.
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