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There is this very attractive mature woman at my health club that I do not understand. I see her maybe 2 or 3x per week in the pool area and we know each other casually. Sometimes she will sit very close to me in the hot tub--a few times she has even sat on my lap but most times she will just hang out very close to me. Usually, we only say hi and bi to each other but we have had deeper discussions before (we've talked about our families, relationships, and personal stuff). Other times, however, she will just be very cool toward me and chat with other people. Whenever I walk by, she will usually check me out--I've also caught her checking me out but, I hate to embarrass her, so I just act like I do not notice. She also parks her car near mine. She says she has a boyfriend--that I've never seen. I have several part time girlfriends (to be honest).
There is this very attractive mature woman at my health club that I do not understand. I see her maybe 2 or 3x per week in the pool area and we know each other casually. Sometimes she will sit very close to me in the hot tub--a few times she has even sat on my lap but most times she will just hang out very close to me. Usually, we only say hi and bi to each other but we have had deeper discussions before (we've talked about our families, relationships, and personal stuff). Other times, however, she will just be very cool toward me and chat with other people. Whenever I walk by, she will usually check me out--I've also caught her checking me out but, I hate to embarrass her, so I just act like I do not notice. She also parks her car near mine. She says she has a boyfriend--that I've never seen. I have several part time girlfriends (to be honest).
My question is, what could she be thinking?
You're a fun person to flirt with at the club. That's all.
She sat on your lap? For an extended period of time, intentionally??
She's sat on your lap in a hot tub (that is bold lol) I'd say she is wanting something to happen with you, either that or she's leading you on for fun.
She's sat on your lap in a hot tub (that is bold lol) I'd say she is wanting something to happen with you, either that or she's leading you on for fun.
Maybe I'm an anomaly, but in my case, the only man whose lap I'd sit in while hot tubbing is the one who already knows me in a biblical sense.
If she did that I'd take it as a very strong move indicating her sexual interest in you. You mentioned her being a mature woman - what age range do you place her in?
Maybe I'm an anomaly, but in my case, the only man whose lap I'd sit in while hot tubbing is the one who already knows me in a biblical sense.
If she did that I'd take it as a very strong move indicating her sexual interest in you. You mentioned her being a mature woman - what age range do you place her in?
Yes seems that way but she's difficult to figure out. She did run her fingers through my hair a couple of times. I have a feeling she just does not have the nerve to ask me out on a date. I won't ask her out until she stops playing it cool.
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