Have you dumped or been dumped more?

[The Dissenter]

Male and the dumper for my one and only relationship. I’d prefer to be the dumper for any future ones if they ain’t meant to be.

[Sonic_Spork]

I honestly couldn't say which role I dislike more. I never felt like I was winning anything, or getting any sort of an upper hand, when I had to hurt someone's feelings and end a relationship. But then, no matter what the circumstances were, I've never had any desire to see someone I was with, suffer. It felt bad, regardless.

Very, very much prefer the instances where we could agree that it was for the best to evolve the connection into something else, like a friendship, or it was never really a relationship thing to begin with, so we just organically drifted apart in a mutually unbothered manner.

[RandyHS]

I've been dumped, alot, but only dumped once.

[Ghobi]

I wonder why you ask? It was them, though they all tried to come back. I have changed in one respect. Loyalty
when it isn't deserved is silly so I would be more ok with separating earlier, and not thinking it is the end of the world. But, these days, getting involved I am way more careful of. There are some crazy people out there. I still think not going backwards is a good principle.

[TaoistDude]

M, about 50/50.

[RubyandPearl]

I've never ended a relationship with a declaration, I just slowly faded away.
Some have taken it well, some haven't.

I've had one declaration "I'm not going to see you anymore."
Horrible.
I'd rather a slow fade.
Female

[Sassybluesy]

I've had 9 relationships prior to my husband.


5 of them broke up with me
5 of them, I broke up with them.
1 of them, he broke up with me, then we got back together, and then I broke up with him.


I'm female.