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We both are teens but not minors... I have a 8 months of relationship with her... this is first relationship for both of us... I love her and that's the reason I'm still with her and maybe she loves me too the same way I love her... we do not have trust issues or something like that, also she is loyal to me.
But, I think she does not put her efforts to be with me, she is a type of girl that can chat with me 24 hours a day but never ever calls me. In 8 months, we have talked only 4 times on call and the first call was when 4 months passed. We've never met in real, ironically, she lives just a 100 or 120 meters away from my home and I can see her daily from my roof but she is unable to look at me for more than a couple of seconds.
I don't know what problem she has: shyness or something else but it is now becoming unbearable for me. She always texts me first, chats for hours a day but can't speak over call or meet me in real.
Oh, one thing I forgot to mention is that I am from INDIA, and she is from very conservative family as most families in INDIA are including mine too.
But, I know I can move mountains for her and she also knows it but she does not put her efforts in our relationship.
Once I told her that I'm breaking up with her, and what happened was that she made minor cuts on her finger enough to bleed and said if I left her, she will... I don't wanna talk about what she said... she just talked about harming herself.
I'm in trouble and want to breakup with her or if it could be better, I'd want her to put some efforts.
Please, someone give me some advice, What should I do?
It doesn't sound like much of a relationship to begin with if you've never met in person and you've only talked 4 times in an 8 month period. I think there's not mucha relationship there to break up with. If you stopped responding to her, would she even notice? The whole thing sounds really messed up anyway.
In any case, these are Indian Guy Issues that we have very little experience with in the US. But one thought is to get each others' parents to fix you two up. Maybe an arranged marriage is in your future?
just stop calling her.....since she never calls you.....I now pronounce you officially broken up....you're welcome.
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