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Old 08-13-2021, 12:53 AM
 
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I learned that you really don't want to try to appeal to every woman (…) the women into serial killers instead of you is you dodging a bullet.
Very true.
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Old 08-13-2021, 01:20 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV.
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Default no self worth & control

Years ago I casually* knew a girl that found her husband on some site that was communication with felons in prison. In her case, it was control, he wasn't going to cheat and he was better looking than she. Sadly, he got out of prison and they married and had 4 kids and he later left her for a younger hotter girl then killed himself. The big thing was her self esteem was very low.
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Old 08-13-2021, 01:28 AM
 
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There are woman for whom dating a dangerous man is a fetish (Hybristophilia). This is why serial killers get lots of fan mail and have no problem getting girlfriends or wives.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hybristophilia
https://harpymagazine.com/home-1/201...serial-killers
https://www.aetv.com/real-crime/why-...serial-killers

Prison is also a common theme especially in bdsm porn, but my understanding is that female prisoners don't get the fan mail that dangerous male prisoners get.
Yes, when I was really young and new to dating I liked only bad boys. Definitely a fetish and happy it didn't last long. Maybe one or two years max. None were in a prison. That is just sad and the woman wants control. He is a pet to her. Until he gets out and roles change!

Oh had a male gay friend that was bi polar and he was a fan of some very pretty blond female that he believed was erroneously in prison for killing her child. He visited her! He lived in a little country town and not much to do. He said when she quit dying her hair blond he lost interest in visits. Gays can be harder to please then straight men. It was a weird story he told me from afar. He was not on his meds and young.
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Old 08-13-2021, 03:55 AM
 
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Depends on the woman and why she is attracted to the felon. It could be that some women are atracted to very aggressive men, just because they find those men to be masculine. Other women are attracted to that sort of men due to low self-esteem. And other women want to sleep with men like Jeremy Ray Meeks because he's extremely physically attractive and because there's plenty of women out there who will sleep with a guy or date a guy because they are hot?

That guy went on to carve himself a career as a high-end fashion model after getting out of prison, and is married to the daughter of a Billionaire if I'm not mistaken.

In the words of the great Charlie Sheen:

''I'm bi-winning. I win here, I win there.''

And Jeremy Meeks sure is winning.
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Old 08-13-2021, 04:10 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV.
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Depends on the woman and why she is attracted to the felon. It could be that some women are atracted to very aggressive men, just because they find those men to be masculine. Other women are attracted to that sort of men due to low self-esteem. And other women want to sleep with men like Jeremy Ray Meeks because he's extremely physically attractive and because there's plenty of women out there who will sleep with a guy or date a guy because they are hot?

That guy went on to carve himself a career as a high-end fashion model after getting out of prison, and is married to the daughter of a Billionaire if I'm not mistaken.

In the words of the great Charlie Sheen:

''I'm bi-winning. I win here, I win there.''

And Jeremy Meeks sure is winning.
I didn't know he married that girl but recall he was dating a wealthy girl years ago. I don't know what he was in prison for but did find it funny his pic was circulated from prison. I think the charge makes a big difference regarding forgiving a past mistake. Obviously.
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Old 08-13-2021, 04:21 AM
 
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I didn't know he married that girl but recall he was dating a wealthy girl years ago. I don't know what he was in prison for but did find it funny his pic was circulated from prison. I think the charge makes a big difference regarding forgiving a past mistake. Obviously.



He married her and had a kid with her. They were married for 10 years. Not bad, not bad.
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Old 08-13-2021, 05:15 AM
 
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I looked it up after we first wrote and the 10 year wife is the first one who was wife during his prison time. The heiress he did get pregnant but I just glanced - it seemed like not married and they were together for around two years. She wasn't as hot as him. So this same thing fits even here. Girls getting prison guys that are hotter than them. It says he pays first wife 1k a month child support. So to me, that contradicts that he is worth 5 mil b/c judge would have ordered more child support.
Sounds like modeling career not great. If you are a male in that field 100k a year is considered very good.
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Old 08-13-2021, 05:21 AM
 
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No, most fashion models don't make much money, but being worth $5 million dollars at his age is not something to sneeze at, not to mention that his money will be worth a lot more if he moves to a Country like Greece or Spain, and enjoys himself. He can retire already and live comfortably on his earnings/having money in the bank generates profits, for the rest of his life.
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Old 08-13-2021, 05:24 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV.
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The 5 mil was a random statement online. When people ask those questions the answer they get is very wrong (know people who tell me that is very wrong re me) hence me saying why the judge only ordered him to pay 1k a month in child support. That's a giveaway the people are making up the random 5 mil. I don't know how many contracts he has but I never see him.
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Old 08-13-2021, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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I have an apartment building, most of our tenants have been felons on parole.

All of these guys were on work release [where the prison busses them to work in a sweatshop, then returns them back to prison each night], then they eventually were given early parole.

So when they come to me they have saved enough to cover their first months' rent and security deposit, and they all have full-time jobs.

Our rent is set at 23% of Minimum-Wage.

My observation has been that within a week each of them has a girlfriend. There is no shortage of women who want an ex-felon.
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