Deleting an ex from your social media

[Thursday007]

Originally Posted by Hpgal

Would deleting an ex off social media deter them from contacting you again?

Had an ex who would reach out to me every 2-3 months. I would usually respond and a few times we actually would meet up. He would always tell me he missed and still loved me and then would just break up with me again. The last time this happened was a few months ago and a few days after meeting up with him I texted him and told him not to contact me again and that I was done. I then deleted him off my social media, have not heard from him since so I’m thinking it worked! But then part of me still thinks I haven’t heard the last of him, but that might just be because I have become so used to this crazy cycle with him. Would the deletion off social media deter you guys from contacting an ex again?

Unless you get firm and I MEAN FIRM and draw the line with now shadow of a doubt it is done and you delete him and change your relationship status from "Screwed UP" to "OKAY" then this narcissistic SOB will always do this and as long as he never has to deal with formal closure he will on his own leave that door open and avoid any discussion of it, or I didn't get the message or my computer is down, the text wasn't working and then send him a certified letter he will not stop.

He wants to keep his options open, doesn't give two squirrel nuts about anyone but himself and what his mom thinks of him and probable still lives with her or goes for her to cook every other night. He is one similar I delt with and if you don't handle this right and right now, he'll smell looking bad to others and beat you to the punch.

I ended up getting hauled to court for a restraining order on me because I finally tossed his crap on the porch and left a note. THIS OFFICIALLY ENDS NOW!

He and a cousin trashed it all and broke things then poloroid it and called the police. He was older and it was mom's house and god forbid her baby look like a fool. But played those phone games and show up after time passed where he 'wouldn't have to talk about anything." I'm not a nagging 24.7 need your whereabouts person, but this disapearing and reapearing and not discussing and issue with - well, i don't care about that it's just a preference for this. Person can't do it you decided whether it is working or not like adults.

Guess who started calling and hanging up one year later....I traced the calls and all from him.

CERTIFIED LETTER DO NOT APPROACH OR CALL AND FORWARD A COPY TO THE LOCAL POLICE.