What happened in my relationship

[Dillpickle93]

Originally Posted by zentropa

That's not how adults would approach this. You were still getting to know each other, and you discovered what you wanted in a relationship was incompatible. It's no one's fault.

This is true. Thank you for the guidance back to a better state of mind

[chessimprov]

She doesn't know what she wants.

She's probably going for options or potential options that she likes or may like more. So, she is easing you off.
She probably found someone interesting at the gym

When you needed space, she took that as an opportunity to move further away from you.

It's ashame she won't give you a little more to work with.

Time to move on.

Sorry it didn't work out.

[MinivanDriver]

Originally Posted by Dillpickle93

2 months of being in a relationships with her, she dumps me. Her reasoning was that we didn't get deep enough into our relationship. Right before she dumped me I received a text from her saying,

"Hi baaaabe! I just had the best gym workout... Actually I think it would be best if we waited for more sleepovers. For me they are more of a special thing even without sex. I want to have a deeper connection with you before more sleepovers. Is that okay? I would like to spend more time together first. Sorry I hope I am not being complicated."

I responded with being fine with that however, I wanted clarity on what she wanted so I was going to call her. Once I did she broke up with me saying we weren't going deep enough.

The next day I texted her saying I just need some space. She responded saying the same thing.

2 weeks in now, giving her space and I still want to know what happened?

Based on the text, it seems like you got embroiled with a shallow twit. Thank your lucky stars and move on.