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There's this one woman whom I've developed some feelings for recently. A couple of months ago, we attended some parties together and I wanted to make a move on her, but my anxiety got the better of me and I never took my shot. Now she has a boyfriend and while me and this girl (we'll just call her "Mandy") are still good friends, I still have some feelings of jealousy towards her and her boyfriend, whom we'll refer to as "Dan".
A couple of nights ago, Mandy hosted a party at her place and there was a point where she was a few drinks and acting really crazy. It reached a point where me and her had a private moment and she told me that I was really good-looking and that she's always had feelings for me. She expressed her wishes that I made a move on her earlier and even though she said that she cares about Dan, she said that she still has feelings for me. She made the offer to anyone that they could spend the night at her place if they needed. I only had one drink the whole night, but I still feigned not being able to drive so as to take her up on her offer and use that as my chance to stay close to her. Her and Dan slept together in her bed and I took her guest room to myself.
Morning came, I helped clean up, and things between me and Mandy were really awkward. While Dan was showering, I tried to talk with Mandy about the incident last night and she basically just gave me a warning to not ever mention it to anyone. I just blurted out that she needed to dump Dan so that me and her could start over, which upset her. She started asking me to leave, which I did at first, but then I decided to get her a little gift to try and make it up to her.
I stopped at a nearby convenience store and got a box of her favorite donuts, Boston cream, and tried to offer them to her. She wouldn't accept and she began yelling at me to take my donuts and leave. I kept telling her to at least take a donut, but then she said that she was going to get Dan. I just dropped the donuts and ran and now I don't know about the state of our relationship.
Mandy clearly still has feelings for me and there's a decent chance that she may not even have strong feelings for Dan. The party incident was ugly, but I'm thinking of ways to maybe wedge myself between them and have another shot at her. Does it sound like a good idea to try and get between them?
You dropped the donuts and ran? LOL! Msndi and her guy are probably still laughing hysterically at you.
Mandi probably has feelings for all guys when she is drunk. But sure, go for it. But up your game to coffee cake and never run. Walk away slow and dignified like.
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