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Old 08-27-2022, 11:52 PM
 
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Hi all.
l have the weirdest things happen well , l suppose they're only weird bc of my age, later 50s. Although most people seem to think early 40s so maybe there's nothing about this stuff at all then bc early 40s even, l could understand.
Just a few examples , and l did talk about another weird one here once before bc that one had me baffle too bc of my age.
Went to watch the whales today they're coming through atm, gorgeous, l go have lunch with them. l'm going up the board ramp stopped for a sec and l girl/lady looked right at me and smiled l just smiled back , l'd say 26-28, didn't think anything of it but she was very nice . Later down on the beach she come and stood right near me, a mtr or so, l mean there's 5k of beach . Friends came over to her later they talked a bit then walked of.
But later leaving and passed her again in the car park, she's just leaning on a fence think she'd been there while l was throwing stuff in my car, stared right at me lovely warm smile.
l get this sort of things a lot but never think anything of it bc of age l just assume it's just a friendly thing.
Last wk same spot just asked a lady/girl if there's any whales over there today but we ended up talking for awhile, same l'd say 28ish, very nice, warm , jokey, lovely personality.
Well later over on the beach noticed her watching me, there 2 hrs she was with another lady then, just stared the whole time. l just smiled over she smiled back.
Another time a wk or so back, watching this show in the park , a young mother with a daughter, pretty cold she had on a big coat. lovely face and beautiful black curly hair but you'd have no clue anything else bc of the coat. Well she was near me, then left , then came back without the coat and had on a beautiful trim top she was very nice that is for sure, and stood closer, about a mtr this time, daughter too, glancing over on and off.

l mean if women 40's early 50s or something and l was single l suppose l'd think, the redhead in the car park for sure , maybe ask her out or a number , l mean it would seem that sort of thing.
But l'm not and l wouldn't even think it was that type of thing anyway with these younger ladies.
Probably a silly question but what's is that stuff anyway ? l get it a lot but never understand bc l mean they wouldn't be interested in me surely lm near 30yrs older even if they can't tell that.
Could be dangerous too so friendly and starey at some guy they don't even know.

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Old 08-28-2022, 12:29 AM
 
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Maybe they are 10 years older than they look.

Or they perceive you as suspicious and are keeping an eye on you.
 
Old 08-28-2022, 04:46 AM
 
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Originally Posted by E-Twist View Post
Maybe they are 10 years older than they look.

Or they perceive you as suspicious and are keeping an eye on you.
Well there are women that are into older guys so it could be that too.
 
Old 08-28-2022, 05:46 AM
 
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Maybe they are 10 years older than they look.

Well , they def' aren't my sort of age bracket but yeah, they could be older than l think l suppose, can be really hard to tell with some women.
My daughters 20 she's got a friend 36 , l'd swear she was only v early 20s .



Or they perceive you as suspicious and are keeping an eye on you.
haaaa, now that one is def' not it.

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Old 08-28-2022, 05:51 AM
 
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Well there are women that are into older guys so it could be that too.

Yeah for sure but l mean l wouldn't even imagine it has been in that sort of way bc of their ages, buttt, maybe , dk. And yeah they could be older than they look to , even a few yrs would make a difference.
My daughters 20 but one of her friends is 36 , l'd swear she was only v early 20s

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Old 08-28-2022, 07:19 AM
 
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Maybe you remind them of their fathers that they haven't seen in awhile.
 
Old 08-28-2022, 07:40 AM
 
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Why don't you ask one of them out, that should give you a better idea of "what is up" than posting to strangers here on CDF.
 
Old 08-28-2022, 08:11 AM
 
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the problem is.
if the woman like you, its flirting
if the woman has no interest, its sexual harassment and you lose your house, car, and in jail
 
Old 08-28-2022, 08:23 AM
 
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Why don't you ask one of them out, that should give you a better idea of "what is up" than posting to strangers here on CDF.

Everyone's posting to strangers whether answering or asking?
But nope as l said, l am involved , or l might have in some instances. Probably not even then though as l wouldn't be interested in women those sort of ages anyway.
 
Old 08-28-2022, 09:01 AM
 
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If you look like George Clooney, then they like the Daddy look.

If you look like George Castanza, then they are just staring at something weird that you are doing / wearing.
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