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I found out that the woman I've had several dates with is married.
She did not disclose this to me and it was only by chance that I saw on social media that she's married...
Should I tell her partner? I'm obviously "done" with her as cheating, even if I'm not the one being affected, is a huge dealbreaker for me.
Its not your place to tell her husband. What if they have kids and get divorced because of your revelation? What if she would be happier now knowing. Its not your place to help destroy a marriage.
MYOB. Don't like dating a married woman ? Don't date her. Also, she may be separated pending a divorce. If <--- and that's a BIG "If" you feel thing are getting serious you might want to have a calm polite discussion with her and ask if she feels the same about you.
Tread carefully. You're playing with fire.
Don't make the assumption she is cheating. Really bad assumption.
How ironic. She's clearly still married according to her recent pics.
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Originally Posted by hawk55732
I agree.
OP, id ask her about it first. Youd be surprised how many open marriages there are.
This is not an open marriage. She never told me she was married. She told me she was divorced since last year but her pics show that she's still in that marriage.
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Originally Posted by Driver 47
MYOB. Don't like dating a married woman ? Don't date her. Also, she may be separated pending a divorce. If <--- and that's a BIG "If" you feel thing are getting serious you might want to have a calm polite discussion with her and ask if she feels the same about you.
Tread carefully. You're playing with fire.
I literally said that I'm done with her. Please read the post entirely before commenting, thanks.
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I'm quite frankly shocked how some people here are in favor of keeping her cheating a secret.
Makes me wonder if they have cheated in the past or are currently cheating...
I know I would like to know if my wife was cheating on me but I guess some people are fine with that.
How ironic. She's clearly still married according to her recent pics.
This is not an open marriage. She never told me she was married. She told me she was divorced since last year but her pics show that she's still in that marriage.
I literally said that I'm done with her. Please read the post entirely before commenting, thanks.
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I'm quite frankly shocked how some people here are in favor of keeping her cheating a secret.
Makes me wonder if they have cheated in the past or are currently cheating...
I know I would like to know if my wife was cheating on me but I guess some people are fine with that.
How do the pictures show that they are still married?
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Originally Posted by JoeyD46
How ironic. She's clearly still married according to her recent pics.
I said don't make the assumption she is cheating, not that she is married. (And there was nothing ironic said, at all.)
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I literally said that I'm done with her. Please read the post entirely before commenting, thanks.
Now, that is textbook irony since you didn't read what I said before commenting.
It's clear though you are not looking for honest dialogue or feedback, you just want validation. I'm out.
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