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Because when some people have sex emotions get involved, this is especially true for women, less so with men.
It becomes more than expressing a normal healthy need. People become bonded emotionally. And when one doesn't feel the same emotional intensity and moves on, the other one is hurt.
It's not about shame, it's about feelings for another person who doesn't feel the same way back.
That is always the risk with any romance. Very often one loves more than the other. So we can renounce romance altogether, or we can risk it. That would be the case with any man I get involved with.
I would have serious doubts about getting seriously involved with someone 15 years younger. What happens when you're 75 and he's 60 and decides you are too old for him?
Unfortunately if the word “sex” would have never been mentioned you would have different reactions. Your opinions about “sex” are completely up to you. Don’t let other shame or judge whatever type of relationship works for you !
I would have serious doubts about getting seriously involved with someone 15 years younger. What happens when you're 75 and he's 60 and decides you are too old for him?
But on the other hand, men are generally less healthy so it can be better to have one who is younger, and not as likely to fall completely apart.
That is always the risk with any romance. Very often one loves more than the other. So we can renounce romance altogether, or we can risk it. That would be the case with any man I get involved with.
True, at any age.
I was replying to the person who asked why anyone would have a broken heart over sex and blamed it on shame and not on the emotions sex can bring on.
I was replying to the person who asked why anyone would have a broken heart over sex and blamed it on shame and not on the emotions sex can bring on.
I would not have sex with someone I didn't like, or possibly love. I already know I like him. He SAYS he likes me, a lot. I think he already even said he loves me. It is possible, because we have met several times. Or maybe he just loves all women, that is possible also.
If any guy worked in "I really want to have sex with you!" when not even dating, I would kick him to the curb.
Blech. So disrespectful, and if you allow him to disrespect you right off the bat, that is how you will be treated going forward.
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Yes I can get attached, and I know heart break can be bad. But previous guy sort of broke my heart, a little, and I got over it fast.
He treated you horribly.
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If any guy worked in "I really want to have sex with you!" when not even dating, I would kick him to the curb.
Blech. So disrespectful, and if you allow him to disrespect you right off the bat, that is how you will be treated going forward.
You always respond to my posts with that tone. So I don't necessarily take your advice too seriously.
Mike and I talked about sex, I don't remember who first brought it up. Sex is usually an important part of male-female relationships, and I don't see anything wrong with talking about it. It is what makes the difference between a friendship and a romance.
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