Someone I’m seeing called my friends hot (dates, boyfriend, men)
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Gotcha wheter that’s too show her more attention or whatever the case.
Yes! Kind of a "Is he going to fight for me? Will he get jealous?" kind of thing.
I think she was def fleeting because she put her head on the guy's shoulder. I say it all the...women avoid touching strangers unless they're interested. Her interest was to get a reaction out of you.
Um, most single women like male attention. You make it sound like a slur. If you all had been drinking and everyone was cutting up, then you need to lighten up a bit.
Does she clearly know you were on a date or was this a group thing? She might be putting you in the friend zone. Or you’re just a little too controlling for the situation.
Well, you say she's your friend. Is she flirtatious like this with 'all the guys?' Could be a misplaced (and immature) effort to make him feel welcome (ish). or not. I'd play it by ear for now and see if this cozy behavior continues.
Um, most single women like male attention. You make it sound like a slur. If you all had been drinking and everyone was cutting up, then you need to lighten up a bit.
Does she clearly know you were on a date or was this a group thing? She might be putting you in the friend zone. Or you’re just a little too controlling for the situation.
Male attention is one thing but to try to get it from the friend of someone you’re at least kind of seeing and is sitting across Don you is kinda rude imo.
I doubt she’s like it if I did that to her friends in front of her
I don’t know if it was a date per de we were celebrating my bday but she did initiate me going back to her place and sleeping with her that night
She’s either a massive flirt who needs male attention or trying to get me jealous neither one is good and both are not things I can tolerate.
OP - if this is the conclusion you’ve drawn, why keep ‘seeing her’? Do you not trust your own judgement? Either you’re allowing your personal insecurities to get in the way of assessing the situation rationally/realistically, or you’re second-guessing/looking for confirmation re: real red flags (as noted by you, no less). Which do you suppose it is?
I met him at the book store
He said he'd like to get to know me just a little more
Asked me to dinner, I said, "I'd bring my girlfriend"
He said, "That's cool 'cause he was gonna bring his best friend"
But something happened that I wasn't expecting
His best friend all night has my attention
Know it was wrong, but I couldn't help it
And I don't care, I'm bein' selfish Know what I want and I want your best friend
Ain't gonna front, uh-uh, I want your best friend
Hey boy, I think I like your best friend
Would you mind if I dined with your best friend?
Switch!
You said you aren't in a relationship yet, so it doesn't matter why she said what she said. Some people just ramble and say whatever pops into their head. It made you uncomfortable so I suggest you find someone else to date. And don't let it bother you if she starts seeing your friend.
You said you aren't in a relationship yet, so it doesn't matter why she said what she said. Some people just ramble and say whatever pops into their head. It made you uncomfortable so I suggest you find someone else to date. And don't let it bother you if she starts seeing your friend.
Yeah, like he said, there is no relationship, they are only casually dating. I've had many casual, friendly, dates, where we'd be hanging out, sometimes saying similar stuff about others we knew or didn't. No big thing if she only said my friend was hot, because we were just friends going out together. I think it's natural to appreciate beauty. Of course, it would be another ball game if she actually lusted to the point of active pursuit, which is when he really should gracefully bow- out.
Last edited by glenninindy; 06-28-2023 at 12:39 AM..
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