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Old 11-23-2023, 10:26 PM
 
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This sounds familiar- you posted about this before? The rideshare won’t talk about ex wife or kids etc.? He doesn’t have insurance on your life?

You know it’s obvious this is dangerous? I recall a murder by a dumb criminal who googled how to get rid of a body etc.

Seriously you need to get family and or close friends to help you disappear.

I hope you get out safely.
Don’t worry about this creep user. You don’t have a marriage and I hope you are very careful next time but any decent man who doesn’t use you is better and you can do better. You are clinging to nothing good.

Stop calling him a husband, far too respectful. He’s just a user and sounds deranged.

Last edited by Ghobi; 11-23-2023 at 11:12 PM..

 
Old 11-23-2023, 10:31 PM
 
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Plz separate yourself from that situation. Absolutely not healthy. What's the point in staying married anyways if you are not married? What if he does something under an influence or something. That's a weird joke to make. Also, let your family know about what he told you as well as your friends just in case. Make sure several people know!!!
 
Old 11-25-2023, 07:42 AM
 
Location: Midwest
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Move your money. Get your valuables out.

GET. OUT. NOW.

He's an abuser and shows absolutely no respect for you. You need a battered or abused women's group, badly. He is not normal.
 
Old 11-25-2023, 09:04 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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OP was advised to leave him back in April, in her other thread.
She obviously won't go... and now it is worse.

Everyone is wasting their time here...
 
Old 11-25-2023, 10:45 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Pitt Chick View Post
OP was advised to leave him back in April, in her other thread.
She obviously won't go... and now it is worse.

Everyone is wasting their time here...
Not true . We tried to do counseling to make the marriage work . But he stopped going because I don’t “obey” .
 
Old 11-25-2023, 11:10 AM
 
Location: a little corner of a very big universe
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Originally Posted by Tiffanyluv83 View Post
Quote:
Originally Posted by Pitt Chick
OP was advised to leave him back in April, in her other thread.
She obviously won't go... and now it is worse.

Everyone is wasting their time here...
Not true . We tried to do counseling to make the marriage work . But he stopped going because I don’t “obey” .

I'm not seeing anything untrue here.


You were advised to leave him. And didn't. Is it better? No, and as Pitt Chick says, it's worse. Are you accepting the advice given here? It sure doesn't look that way.
 
Old 11-25-2023, 11:28 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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Leave right now.

He is probably gay, but gay men who marry a woman to act as a cover usually treat their wives better than he treats you. He has a serious screw loose and he sounds like he is actually dangerous. There is no reason to try to save that marriage and several reasons to get the hell out of there immediately. Pack your bag and go before he gets home. Don't let him know where you have gone..
 
Old 11-26-2023, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Columbia SC
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Tiffany

Leave ASAP.
 
Old 11-26-2023, 06:56 PM
 
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Looks like the OP will never get rid of this guy

https://www.city-data.com/forum/rela...al-issues.html
 
Old 11-26-2023, 07:34 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Suburban_Guy View Post
Looks like the OP will never get rid of this guy

https://www.city-data.com/forum/rela...al-issues.html
We did try to work it out . Tried counseling a few times but he eventually stopped wanting to attend . Yes I did try to work things out . Does that make me a bad person ?
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