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Old 12-17-2023, 05:11 AM
 
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So I am 37 years old woman and been separated from my husband since 7 years.

I dated my ex husband and then married him when I was 24 and he was 37 and people we OK with the age difference.

However, now I am 37 and dating a 26 year old guy since past 8 months, people judge me and think i am a cougar.

I feel bad for the double standards in the society.

The other day some High school bullies from my son's school bullied my son by **** shaming me. My 12 year old son was scarred and I was shocked when he told me what all he had heard from the High school kids.


I feel no one has the right to point out whom I date or am sexually active with as long as I am not breaking the law.
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Old 12-17-2023, 07:38 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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If high school boys knew about it, then you weren’t discrete. Sometimes it’s best to keep your sexual activities to yourself. People are going to talk.
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Old 12-17-2023, 07:40 AM
 
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How does the bully know who you are dating?
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Old 12-17-2023, 07:50 AM
 
Location: Midwest
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How does the bully know who you are dating?
Yeah, really. More details.

OP, send your kid to martial arts classes until he has his black belt.
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Old 12-17-2023, 07:59 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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The other day some High school bullies from my son's school bullied my son by **** shaming me.


I feel no one has the right to point out whom I date or am sexually active with as long as I am not breaking the law.

How do high school kids know about your sex life??
What country are you in?

Also, why are you sleeping around when you are still married?? (You say you are "separated".)
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Old 12-17-2023, 08:33 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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How do high school kids know about your sex life??
Her bf probably has a younger sibling still in HS..
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Old 12-17-2023, 08:45 AM
 
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Her bf probably has a younger sibling still in HS..
You are assuming a lot, the bf might not even be from the same area as the mom.
And who tells their school about their siblings sex lives?
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Old 12-17-2023, 09:12 AM
 
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To answer a couple of questions from above, maybe the OP divorced her ex husband again. And, if people see this couple in public together, of course they will assume they are having sex together too. Only the OP can truthfully answer these questions though.
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Old 12-17-2023, 10:54 AM
 
Location: Watervliet, NY
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Yeah, really. More details.

OP, send your kid to martial arts classes until he has his black belt.
Until??? Getting a black belt is only the start of training. It's one part of a process, not an ultimate goal.
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Old 12-17-2023, 10:56 AM
 
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To answer a couple of questions from above, maybe the OP divorced her ex husband again. And, if people see this couple in public together, of course they will assume they are having sex together too. Only the OP can truthfully answer these questions though.

You are absolutely right.

I have been separated and practically divorced.

And my current boyfriend has come to drop off / pick up my kid to school many times and people know about us.
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