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Old 01-09-2024, 02:40 PM
 
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While he is in a relationship with another woman.

Do you consider this cheating?
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Old 01-09-2024, 02:51 PM
 
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While he is in a relationship with another woman.

Do you consider this cheating?
Were tongues involved?
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Old 01-09-2024, 02:55 PM
 
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Describe the kiss. Was he aiming for a cheek kiss and she turned her head?
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Old 01-09-2024, 02:56 PM
 
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Closed mouth peck? No, not cheating at all. I know many family members who kiss relatives on the mouth like this. No issue.

Now, anything with open lips is a different story....
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Old 01-09-2024, 03:10 PM
 
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Were tongues involved?
No. We're talking a quick peck.
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Old 01-09-2024, 03:13 PM
 
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Don’t know if you all have seen the story about the Spanish women’s soccer team coach.

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-09-...kiss/102834822

Suspect there is a back story involved, but it seems consent is definitely essential.
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Old 01-09-2024, 03:15 PM
 
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OK...

I wouldn't call it cheating, but depending on the circumstances, it might get my guard up.

Like if this is a couple of people who have ALWAYS been like this, and otherwise, their behavior is always above board, I wouldn't think too much of it at all.

But if it was a behavior that just started...like some woman was starting to make a point of kissing my husband "just a quick peck" I would probably say something to one or both of them.
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Old 01-09-2024, 03:38 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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Do you consider this cheating?
It takes two to kiss.

Anyways, the only persons that can answer this question are the people in the relationship. Those that enter into a relationship author what is and is not acceptable in a relationship.

As for me, it depends. It depends on the person I am in a relationship and under what circumstances.
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Old 01-09-2024, 03:47 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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While he is in a relationship with another woman.

Do you consider this cheating?
Are you thinking he cheated on you? Or did you receive the quick peck?
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Old 01-09-2024, 03:48 PM
 
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It takes two to kiss.

Anyways, the only persons that can answer this question are the people in the relationship. Those that enter into a relationship author what is and is not acceptable in a relationship.

As for me, it depends. It depends on the person I am in a relationship and under what circumstances.
Yeah...the same for me. I know a lady who we (husband and I) are friends with. She's single, and a few years younger than we are. To be clear, she's never come on to my husband, and never behaved innappropriately toward him.

But she brings "single energy" when we're all together (we're also friends with her daughter and son inlaw). And...she's pretty hot.

If she EVER acted innappropriately towards my husband, I would have to say something to one or both of them. Probably just her. And no, I wouldn't go all Rambo on her or anything, but we'd have a quiet private chat reminding her of boundaries, etc.
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