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Tsk tsk, you ask such a loaded question here.. Seriously though, I have dated all different types of guys. I guess it goes back to who I am sexually attracted to. I tend to be drawn to a man's hands and lips. My philosophy has always been, if I can't see myself kissing the guy I am with, and his hands are short, fat, and stubby, then we're not going to be taking things any further.
What size? Ahem....let's just say bigger than average and leave it at that.
Height wise don't care. I don't care about weight until it gets to be a problem for normal activities. I've been equally attracted to both tall and short men but never dated a really skinny guy. Nothing against them. Just never did. This may reflect my own insecurities because I'm, as a southern gentleman once put it "built for comfort not for speed".
What is "average"? Science says 5 inches. I've always wondered what women actually think average is. Mine was chopped off with a weed whacker, so there's no offending me.
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What size? Ahem....let's just say bigger than average and leave it at that.
Height wise don't care. I don't care about weight until it gets to be a problem for normal activities. I've been equally attracted to both tall and short men but never dated a really skinny guy. Nothing against them. Just never did. This may reflect my own insecurities because I'm, as a southern gentleman once put it "built for comfort not for speed".
I'm very short so I can date any height without having to worry about the man being self-conscious. For me, height doesn't make a difference. My "big love" before my husband was five foot five or thereabouts.
However...I confess that I don't like a very slim guy. I like to "feel" my guy. Hard to explain that. I like to put my arms around a bit of guy.
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Why do women always assume a big guy can protect them?
Have you ever heard of 357?
I'm a slim somewhat tall guy. Believe me when I say it, not to many big guys can handle me....been there done that.
I think they assume big guys can protect them because a little guy, regardless of how much jiu jitsu training he has, is going to be rendered inneffective in the face of a 100 lb. weight differential, particularly if the bigger guy is even a novice striker/groundfighter (which is a decent bet in today's UFC popular culture). While a well trained little man can defeat a much larger opponent, the percentages are always on the side of the guy who can simply "out-big" his opponent.
I'm not sure how we arrived here from "What taste in men do you have", but forget your .357, that's the round of the past.
Probably the best bet is to find a guy who isn't going to get killed by getting into street fights.
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Seriously though, I have dated all different types of guys. I guess it goes back to who I am sexually attracted to. I tend to be drawn to a man's hands and lips. My philosophy has always been, if I can't see myself kissing the guy I am with, and his hands are short, fat, and stubby, then we're not going to be taking things any further. 
