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Not to get OT...I agree with the point of your post, Zig'sbird.
But does this constitute cheating in the average wife's mind? That doesn't make any sense to me if it does.
Does it? No, not in the least if it's all innocent. However, the way I am I feel very uncomfortable when a woman who is not my wife attempts to give me a hug or something similarly innocent. Like I said, I'm VERY tradional when it comes to this - a bit of an oddball honestly
That's because conventional sexuality is a quite modern construction, and our Western society's perceptions are not absolute. Our minds are not free with regard to sexuality; they're filled with prejudices. Why should those men have to consider themselves gay or bi?
I have always thought of someone who is sexually attracted to both genders as being bisexual. Is there something wrong with that?
I don't think it's weird to have 'out there' sexual fantasies really. I don't consider a gay fantasy to be out there at all really. It doesn't sound like you plan on acting on it, so you can fantasize about anything you want! I know I can occassionally think some of some crazy fantasies which I would not want everyone knowing about.
I would NEVER ever want to act on them in real life, but I don't see how it does any harm at all to have an active imagination!
As long as you aren't imagining hurting someone (which I think damages the soul) then have at it!
If a man is happily married to a woman, then he doesn't think about being with someone else, nevermind another man.
I'm a happily married woman and I have thoughts about being with Denzel Washington. But I don't act on them. Because that would make me a crazy stalker. Har har.
Does it? No, not in the least if it's all innocent. However, the way I am I feel very uncomfortable when a woman who is not my wife attempts to give me a hug or something similarly innocent. Like I said, I'm VERY tradional when it comes to this - a bit of an oddball honestly
Well, maybe not. I mean, I know a woman who feels this way, and she doesn't want other women hugging her husband. Maybe it isn't as unusual as I think it is.
Gay, straight or bi, the real bottom line here is that you're considering someone besides your spouse, and unless your spouse is on board with this, it doesn't matter whether it's a man or a woman or a poodle you're considering being with--you're still considering cheating.
Let her be, MLV! There are people interested in small furry mammals.
She's discriminating I say. What about the other breed of dogs? Why not mention them? Why does everyone always want the poodle? I might have to report this racist thread.
She's discriminating I say. What about the other breed of dogs? Why not mention them? Why does everyone always want the poodle? I might have to report this racist thread.
That's right! I like monkeys!
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