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Old 08-05-2008, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Fresno, CA
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these particular circumstances are not benign imho. In fact, I would go further and advise the OP to tip off Vagina Girl that everyone in their circle of friends now know what she looks like.
Right you are!
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Old 08-05-2008, 03:35 PM
 
Location: Stanwood, Washington
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Are you upset with your husband about something your husband didn't do? That makes sense.

Is this a habit? Do you give him all the attention he wants, to where he has no legit need for porn? If it's a habit, he needs counseling and something more from you. If he is satisfied with you and this is not a habit, just laugh at his brother and move on.
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Old 08-05-2008, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Temporary on Earth for a little while
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Wow... if that were the case, I would think at least 95% of the straight male population wouldn't be married!!!! And do you honestly think that your loving, accomodating, validating, "honey, there is you and only you in this world" husbad doesn't switch gears when he's 'out with the guys'?! Men are men, they think from the waste up, and anyone who says otherwise is in denial or is naive. I have worked in enough male dominated environments, I know better! The difference is some men have tact and are not vulgar with their spouse (meaning... us Ladies don't hear what is REALLY said when no females are around!).

As a Lady, you can choose to accept the true nature of the beast in your male counterpart, or you can pretend the beast doesn't exist. For me personally, I would rather accept him for what he is... because that is my job as his counterpart! Besides, once you can let go of your own preconceptions of the "fairytale" in your mind, the relationship becomes a little more open, intimate, trusting, and fuller.. not to mention a lot more fun for both of you!

Any woman who needs constant validating.. that just proves how insecure she is in HERSELF.
I understand what you mean, but I personally would NOT tolerate it. I would not tolerate my fiance' looking at picture of a naked girl. To me that is crossing the line. That would be disrespecting me.

I have made that clear to him. Yes he could joke around with the guys but to a certain extent. This is just my opinion and no one will change it.
And i am NOT living in "fairytale" land. We are both very open with each other and very happy. I know my limits he knows his

TO the poster...trust me there are some gentlemen out there that will not do that to their significant other.
Trying talking to him again about it if it continues to bother you. I know i would. Good luck!
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Old 08-05-2008, 05:14 PM
 
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Not to mention is is just so creepy they are passing around this.

Its just trashy and wierd....Like high tech peeping toms

I would tell vadgey girl and really get someone in some trouble.
Maybe she will sue.
We can only hope.
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Old 08-05-2008, 05:36 PM
 
Location: Missouri Ozarks
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Go shopping and tell him that he's overreacting when he gets upset that you're buying too many clothes, etc.. on his credit card.
Play dumb like he's doing and tell him that you thought money grows on trees and then say, what's the big deal??
It may only take once but he'll get the idea and stop being so immature.
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Old 08-05-2008, 05:37 PM
 
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I was going to say the same thing. Creepy is a great word.

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Not to mention is is just so creepy they are passing around this.

Its just trashy and wierd....Like high tech peeping toms

I would tell vadgey girl and really get someone in some trouble.
Maybe she will sue.
We can only hope.
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Old 08-06-2008, 10:26 AM
 
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Send some photos of your "area" to your husband too. Some close-ups of your other parts with a hot message. If he wants to see some private parts, give him something to look at - his wife!

I'm married too and I believe in fighting naughty with naughty (within reason). Don't sweat the other photos, he's just being dumb!
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Old 08-06-2008, 10:46 AM
 
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I would tell vadgey girl and really get someone in some trouble.
Maybe she will sue.
We can only hope.
Sue. Are you kidding. You think she didnt know pictures were being taken of her privates? If you dont want it spread around dont spread em for the camera.

I think, tho immature, that it is more intriguing to peek at the nudity of someone you know as opposed to a magazine spread (although not as aesthetically pleasing).
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Old 08-06-2008, 11:20 AM
 
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Just a thought...

People go to JAIL/get sued etc for doing this without people knowing.

Chuck Berry - remember that?

STill think its not wierd?
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Old 08-06-2008, 11:49 AM
 
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Well first of all if it was like a porn picture, eh...boys will look at porn. Asking for more and not denying it? lol. maybe he doesnt care that you know because he honestly isnt doing anything. If its a picture of someone you know or he knows, yeah id be worried.
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