I'm married; an attractive lady wants to "do lunch", should I? (female, young)
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WAs telling my Husband tonight all about how you had all jumped the gun about this poor guy going out to lunch with an attractive younger woman.
He then told me that a lady at work had asked him to lunch today, well call me crazy but I couldn't stop laughing and asked him if he was going.
This is called being secure confident and adult.
Yes I do hope that he goes
WAs telling my Husband tonight all about how you had all jumped the gun about this poor guy going out to lunch with an attractive younger woman.
He then told me that a lady at work had asked him to lunch today, well call me crazy but I couldn't stop laughing and asked him if he was going.
This is called being secure confident and adult.
Yes I do hope that he goes
Gosh yes, that must have been SO funny! Goodness, is it not exhausting feeling so superior?
I think that if your wife knows about it it should be harmless. If your wife has trust in you then it shouldn't matter what the person looks like. Trust in a relationship means a lot and if you are happy with your wife then an attractive woman is not going to tempt you to give that up. But at the same time I think that if she continues conversations with you outside of school then you might want to let her know to just keep to school. The saying if it is something that you can't talk about if your wife was there then you might not be saying or doing it.
stop thinking so highly of yourself. she probably wants to talk with you because she figures that you would not be sexually interested in her because you are married. and what exactly would an attractive women want to do with you??
Thats why I am getting a divorce. It all started with just going to lunch with a younger woman that he met at one of the stores he delivered to. She asked him to lunch he agreed and realized he had a lot in common with her. Don't do it OT. That will be the end of your marriage.
Thats why I am getting a divorce. It all started with just going to lunch with a younger woman that he met at one of the stores he delivered to. She asked him to lunch he agreed and realized he had a lot in common with her. Don't do it OT. That will be the end of your marriage.
I am so sorry you are going through this. I am sure Millie in her 'adult, secure' relationship is absolutely certain that nothing like this could ever happen to her. I say why even chance it. What on earth is the point?
Let me reiterate AGAIN that this is not about necessary business meetings, etc. Only about cozy one on ones where there is an attraction between the individuals. It's just asking for trouble IMHO.
Gosh yes, that must have been SO funny! Goodness, is it not exhausting feeling so superior?
no my dear comes naturally
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