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Old 09-02-2008, 07:41 AM
 
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I know somebody right now who is dating a married man and just like your friend he takes her out in public. He thinks nothing about it. You can't even tell he is married. People are crazy. Happens everyday!
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Old 09-03-2008, 12:36 PM
 
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How does the "dating" couple explain it to their friends? Either the girlfriend or the married man.
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Old 09-03-2008, 12:44 PM
 
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Sounds like a normal process of seperation type deal to me.
They just havent made it formal with paperwork.
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Old 09-03-2008, 12:55 PM
 
Location: CITY OF ANGELS AND CONSTANT DANGER
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you did nothing wrong. you are not the lowlife married man. or the floosie home wrecker. you did nothing wrong.

but you should not jump to conclusions. maybe they have an open relationship. either way it would be best to stay away from them. it does not seem like an honest, healthy or positive space. no need to be a part of that.
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Old 09-03-2008, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Florida
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This is a situation where there's the husband's side, the wife's side, the girlfriend's side and then the real side.
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Old 09-03-2008, 03:26 PM
 
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This is a situation where there's the husband's side, the wife's side, the girlfriend's side and then the real side.
Too true!
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Old 09-03-2008, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Curious story... Well, I'm sure the situation is not a surprise for the wife if he spends weekends with the GF and introduces her to everybody. In some cultures this is a way of life.
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Old 09-03-2008, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Oxford, OH
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You actually were being very polite to leave a thank you note. So the fact that the wife found it may be that it was meant to be found. At least she knows now. How sad that he didn't leave first. Not sure why people don't do that in the right order. If you are not in love and wanting to see others than leave first and don't go behind other's backs...sure wouldn't want someone who did that to someone else.
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Old 09-03-2008, 04:22 PM
 
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You actually were being very polite to leave a thank you note. So the fact that the wife found it may be that it was meant to be found. At least she knows now. How sad that he didn't leave first. Not sure why people don't do that in the right order. If you are not in love and wanting to see others than leave first and don't go behind other's backs...sure wouldn't want someone who did that to someone else.
Perhaps it's because divorce is (financially) costly, so, instead of going through the actual divorce process, the couple just stays married, but sees other people. How sad.
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Old 09-03-2008, 05:57 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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It doesn't sound like they were really hiding it anyway. Sometimes people leave an "open door" in hopes somebody will spill the beans.
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