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Old 09-26-2008, 12:34 AM
 
Location: New York
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Originally Posted by w1ngzer0 View Post
people cheat because they're cowards. Too scared to break up a relationship, too scared to talk or commit.
Or they like variety.
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:39 AM
 
Location: The Mountains of AZ
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Exactly !
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:40 AM
 
Location: USA
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Or they like variety.
find me a woman that cheats because of variety. Every accident that i ran into was too scared to end a relationship,unhappy, ect. There wasn't a reason for "variety"

If people want variety, never get into a relationship in the first place.
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:46 AM
 
Location: New York
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find me a woman that cheats because of variety. Every accident that i ran into was too scared to end a relationship,unhappy, ect. There wasn't a reason for "variety"

If people want variety, never get into a relationship in the first place.
Well, maybe they weren't as serious as you were. I still say variety either way.
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Old 09-26-2008, 06:01 AM
 
Location: Duncan, OK
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Just a warning...

Keep your posts CIVIL and On-Topic. Thanks...
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Old 09-26-2008, 06:44 AM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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Just found out my bf has been dating someone else. We are no longer together. I thought our relationship was great. Why do men look elsewhere when they have something so good at home?
Because they have a p*n*s!!!
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Old 09-26-2008, 06:55 AM
 
Location: Morrison, CO
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Not always true. Again the first thing most folks need to understand is that for a man cheating is simply a physical act. It's just sex and love and feelings have nothing to do with it. For most women it's seldom just a physical thing. Emotions play a larger part. Women can never understand why a man would sleep with someone he does not care about. Men can't understand why a women thinks we have to care about them to sleep with them. I'm not saying one group is right or wrong but thats the way it is. If your man cheated on you and begs you to take him back his cheating was simply physical. If he makes no attempt to patch things up it was way more than a physical act. This is a person he has bonded with and has a emotional attachment. In this case the relationship was over long ago and he simply did not have the guts to tell you.

And sometimes it starts as just physical, but then becomes love. A lot of things can happen. But, you're right I think. Typically a man is lured away with sex, and someone who actually listens and is interested in him. Sometimes the interest is fake or just infatuation however.
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Old 09-26-2008, 06:59 AM
 
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quote=asitshouldbe;5431110]Because they have a p*n*s!!![/quote]

Or maybe controlled by "it".

Well, if the OP was that "good" for him, then maybe he wouldn't have cheated. Oh, wait, she said "boyfriend." Maybe he didn't think that being bf/gf is that much of a commited relationship so....he.....decided to do what he wanted.

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Old 09-26-2008, 08:48 PM
 
Location: kentucky
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OK next ? where does a person meet new men? I can't date my employees and I don't do the bar scene. Have been out of the dating world for 3 years.
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Old 09-26-2008, 09:01 PM
 
Location: Austin
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Well, there's a Bible story... God... God took a rib from Adam and made Eve. Now maybe men chase women to get the rib back. When God took the rib, he left a big hole there, where there used to be something. And the women have that. Now maybe, just maybe, a man isn't complete as a man without a woman.

I heart Moonstruck
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