I have a best friend whom I have known since I was 6. In february my daughters dad and I broke up and I took it really hard suicidal thoughts deep depression the whole 9. My best friend was 9 months pregnant and ended up having her daughter around that time so she was kind of MIA in the whole comforting me area.
She has an older sister we will call her Sue. Well Sue is 30 (im 21) and we ended up clicking and she started hanging out with me alot. HOnestly she got me through the break up she was over my house every day when I got off work and really helped me heal. Sue is unemployed, lives with her mom, doesnt have a job shes a lesbian (you will see why I added that later) and she just started cosmetology (sp?) school.
Well im over my ex to say the least. Ive started dating again and that also helped me get through it. I told Sue that I wanted to be single for a while and get myself together.
Me and Sue started clashing just a bit recently. She would get mad if I took my daughter to see her dad saying he doesnt deserve to see her and I should keep her away and I said no regardless of how I feel about him he is her father and he loves her so thats very immature. She was pissed. It would make me angry because IM her mom no one else I decide whats best and I decided she needs a dad (duh)
well Sue's school is on my way home from work sort of. I told her sometimes I could pick her hup from school so she wouldnt have to catch the bus but never said it owuld be every day or anything like that. Well im not doing the best financially and told her I didnt have the gas to pick her up. And that night I went and spent the night at one of the guys I was dating house and she was
. Shes like well you have the gas to get to him but not pick me up im like wow.
So ever since then shes been kind of distant. Well Ive recently gotte into a relatioship and she hates it. She kept saying I thought you were going to be sigle for a while im like I was single since february thats a while to me. Well I brought her to my house on monday to meet him and see what she thought of him. Afterwards shes like I dont think hes cute and you can do better. LOL let me just tell you guys I find him very attractive (which is all that matters) and he is a very good guy job car house in college no kids treats me like a queen. So I kind of brushed it off like whatever.
SO heres the situation at hand. Yesterday I told her I would pick her up from school and she was going to come over ad paint my toes. Well when I left work I had a flat tire and no spare so I had to call my mom to come take me to get a spare. I tried calling Sue a million times it would ring for 30 secs then go to vm. I called my best friend and told her what was going on and if hse could try to call her she said she did and no answer. So what else could I do?
About 30 minutes later she calls and I tell her what happened she seemed to have anattitude and was like oh ok well bye and hung up.
Well about 45 minutes later im looking through my facebook on my phone and she has a status that reads
"Females kill me these dayz!! If ud get up off the d*ck u mite c u have friends around who care about u!!! But thats what happes when u a hoe and a NI**A always comes first even before your daughter I bet!! I wonder how THIS time will end!!!!"
I guess she thinks I lied about the tire thing like im 14 or something. I didnt write back on the status but sent her a text and said
"wow you cant just be happy for me after all the things ive been through I finally have a good guy and your gonna put me down? And you call yourself a friend? But look ima put it like this put my daughter in one of your status's again and ima dog your sh*t"
And she wrote back "I wasnt even talking about you you must be feeling guilty."
She told her sister my best friend that it was about me.
Anyways the question is am I wrong i this situation at all? I cant see it. I need others opinions. I think shes jealous because my life is alot better than hers and im alot younger than her. I also think she had a crush on me or something because shes a little too mad that I have a bf.
Sorry so long.
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