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Old 10-03-2008, 08:33 AM
 
Location: Cairo - Egypt
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In a few weeks ago , I went to a website about marriage , I made an account ,so someone sent a message that he was interested in me .
we talked on yahoo messenger then on the phone . We talked about two hours , I told him some information like my name , my address and my job , he did the same .then he spent his vacation in north coast for few days .
He noticed me about his arrival but I did not call him , because I wanted to know if he is serious or not . We made chatting on yahoo ..he was very aggressive , asked me again about my real name and my address and I felt so angry because he forgot everything about me , and I refused to answer his questions .so he accused me that I am not clear . He just remembered that we lived in the same area without details .he wanted to know my phone number and my picture on net and everything . In a few minutes ago he came out on net , I asked him to talk on the phone , he refused my demand and insisted to see each other face to face . and said again I am not clear .finally I wished him luck and good bye .
Am I wrong or what?
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Old 10-03-2008, 08:35 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Oh I believe that was a good call on your part.
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Old 10-03-2008, 08:36 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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In a few weeks ago , I went to a website about marriage , I made an account ,so someone sent a message that he was interested in me .
we talked on yahoo messenger then on the phone . We talked about two hours , I told him some information like my name , my address and my job , he did the same .then he spent his vacation in north coast for few days .
He noticed me about his arrival but I did not call him , because I wanted to know if he is serious or not . We made chatting on yahoo ..he was very aggressive , asked me again about my real name and my address and I felt so angry because he forgot everything about me , and I refused to answer his questions .so he accused me that I am not clear . He just remembered that we lived in the same area without details .he wanted to know my phone number and my picture on net and everything . In a few minutes ago he came out on net , I asked him to talk on the phone , he refused my demand and insisted to see each other face to face . and said again I am not clear .finally I wished him luck and good bye .
Am I wrong or what?
NO, you were prudent. This online meeting stuff can be great and lead to great friendships and relationships EVENTUALLY. But there is always a danger of who is really out and you need to set some strict boundries at first until you can be more sure of a person. This one sounds like he has a screw loose, or at the very least, is too desparate. Move on dear
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Old 10-03-2008, 08:36 AM
 
Location: Orlando
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In a few weeks ago , I went to a website about marriage , I made an account ,so someone sent a message that he was interested in me .
we talked on yahoo messenger then on the phone . We talked about two hours , I told him some information like my name , my address and my job , he did the same .then he spent his vacation in north coast for few days .
He noticed me about his arrival but I did not call him , because I wanted to know if he is serious or not . We made chatting on yahoo ..he was very aggressive , asked me again about my real name and my address and I felt so angry because he forgot everything about me , and I refused to answer his questions .so he accused me that I am not clear . He just remembered that we lived in the same area without details .he wanted to know my phone number and my picture on net and everything . In a few minutes ago he came out on net , I asked him to talk on the phone , he refused my demand and insisted to see each other face to face . and said again I am not clear .finally I wished him luck and good bye .
Am I wrong or what?
No you aren't wrong. Something set off your radar and you reacted correctly.
You don't owe him anything.
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Old 10-03-2008, 08:40 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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The moment he became aggresive I would have been signed off. You don't need any psychos in your life monaliza. Good riddance!
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Old 10-03-2008, 08:41 AM
 
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Be careful when you do that stuff, Mona. Plenty of "crazy" people out there. I think you were right, red lights were flashing as I read it.

Just be careful.
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Old 10-03-2008, 08:50 AM
 
Location: Austin
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Always meet at a public place first and don't give out personal information that soon.
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Old 10-03-2008, 09:06 AM
 
Location: Cairo - Egypt
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He is divorced and have three children ... but I don't care because I am 39 and not married yet .so we are equal . I told him some information just to introduce ourselves although he accused me that i am not clear enough with him .
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Old 10-03-2008, 09:09 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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What everybody else said...
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Old 10-03-2008, 09:17 AM
 
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yeah - ditto!
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