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Ok. Lets hear the good and the bad....from the smokers..being married too, or not, from their partner.
Is it an issue for you, in your relationship?
I am unfortunetly, a smoker. :-( Not something I am proud of, but I am.)
My husband, is a non-smoker. He doesn`t say much, but I know he don`t like it. What non-smoker does, right?
If they knew they were a smoker though, before you married, what gives them the right to ...b----...(complain)
now?
I CANNOT be with someone who smokes. NASTY Habit. I can't walk near people who smoke. So Fkn Nasty! I've fought with my wife over her sneaking smokes. She doesn't anymore. So I believe. We fought some nasty ones. But she was not a smoker when we married. She had smoked in the past. But never really a heavy or even moderate smoker and never around me. I never really got why she smoked since it almost ruined out relationship. She didn't even do it heavy. But I cannot stand being around that nasty filthy smoke.
I CANNOT be with someone who smokes. NASTY Habit. I can't walk near people who smoke. So Fkn Nasty! I've fought with my wife over her sneaking smokes. She doesn't anymore. So I believe. We fought some nasty ones. But she was not a smoker when we married. She had smoked in the past. But never really a heavy or even moderate smoker and never around me. I never really got why she smoked since it almost ruined out relationship. She didn't even do it heavy. But I cannot stand being around that nasty filthy smoke.
Don't take this wrong. But maybe she smoked BECAUSE she knew how much you hated it. A little passive aggressive. I know people like that...that will pick and pick and pick until the other person blows up.
Don't take this wrong. But maybe she smoked BECAUSE she knew how much you hated it. A little passive aggressive. I know people like that...that will pick and pick and pick until the other person blows up.
Possibly. I don't have any good reason why she did. Although we had split up for a year and had just gotten back together and thats when I started catching her smoking. She would lie and lie and lie. She knew I was close to walking back out and still did it.
i dont socialize with smokers, so i dont have this problem
At all? Even really nice ones?
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There's no way that place shuts down!
We fought some nasty ones. But she was not a smoker when we married. She had smoked in the past. But never really a heavy or even moderate smoker and never around me. I never really got why she smoked since it almost ruined out relationship. She didn't even do it heavy. But I cannot stand being around that nasty filthy smoke.
