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Ignore the question and change the subject of course. If they persist, simply say, "I'm sorry, but that's a rude question. Let's talk about something more pleasant."
Since I'm married I do not have to answer questions like these but when I am asked something I either don't want to answer or I think is rude, I say "If I tell ya' I'll have to kill ya'"...this throws the person off long enough for me to divert the attention for a while.
This has fast become a pet peeve of mine in the dating world. On first dates or even in an initial e-mail contact online I (and several of my female friends as well) have been asked the same question, phrased in different ways.
Oh Yes, these questions always ticked me off too. I was 30 when I married and I started asking folks why they felt the need to ask such personal questions. I figured if they had no manners themselves, they couldn't possibly be offended if I threw it back at them.
How come you're X years old and have never been married? Because I choose to marry when I have experienced more of what life has to offer. Or......I don't want to be married, that's why!
You're really great, how come no one has snatched you up yet? Oh, they've tried but I had to pry the leaches off.
You seem like a great catch, why hasn't anyone caught you? See above answer.
You're still single, I guess you must be pretty picky, huh? You bet! It takes a lot of patience on my part to separate the boys from the men. Which are you?
Any suggestions on a snappy comeback? I figure, if we date long enough, the dating history on both sides will be discussed at some point, so why start off with such a none-of-your-business question? Get to know me first, and then judge for yourself.
I always turn it around and put the other person in the hot seat. Like, "Why do you think I should be with someone by now?", "Are you saying that I'm old?", etc...
See how they react to answering uncomfortable questions.
I always turn it around and put the other person in the hot seat. Like, "Why do you think I should be with someone by now?", "Are you saying that I'm old?", etc...
See how they react to answering uncomfortable questions.
Or why are you assuming I've never been in a relationship?
Not to change the direction, but this reminded me of a guy that was attempting to date me and said..."you're a good looking Hefer and I hope you NEVER die! Had to give him credit for creativity.
Because people from the south are not usually as direct as you and I...most people I know (myself excluded!) would say "Gawd bless you, honey, what do you think about that storm that's comin'?"
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Had to give him credit for creativity.
