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Old 11-21-2008, 04:26 PM
 
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My honey, has a bit, but shes still super sexy to me but i dont mind, cuz as she gains weight so do the [know what im saying] i gained like 15 lbs, but my weight fluctuates alot.
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Old 11-21-2008, 04:28 PM
 
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I was in a relationship around 10 years ago and i gained around 20 pounds in that duration. I swore that I would never let that happen again. It wasn't a good feeling.
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Old 11-21-2008, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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I was in a relationship around 10 years ago and i gained around 20 pounds in that duration. I swore that I would never let that happen again. It wasn't a good feeling.


You look perfect now........................................... ..................
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Old 11-21-2008, 04:35 PM
 
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I was in a relationship around 10 years ago and i gained around 20 pounds in that duration. I swore that I would never let that happen again. It wasn't a good feeling.
AMEN!!
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Old 11-21-2008, 04:35 PM
 
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You look perfect now........................................... ..................
Thanks
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Old 11-21-2008, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Yes. That is one of my biggest peeves. I have to stay in shape because I compete in ballroom. Plus, I just feel better about myself, and why lie - I'm vain. My husband, on the other hand, is very overweight. It's one of the things I was seeing a marriage counselor about. I am not attracted to him, which causes lots of problems. He's a great person, funny, sweet, kind, intelligent, educated and an excellent provider. One of the reasons I sought counseling was because I thought I was just being really shallow and I felt bad about it, but I couldn't help the way I felt. I now know that it's okay to feel this way. These are my feelings and I am entitled to them.

I think there should be some kind of a contract when you get married that says you must stay healthy and in shape for each other.
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Old 11-21-2008, 04:54 PM
 
Location: S.Dak
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We have marked 19 yrs, in our relationship. We still ''look good'' together....
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Old 11-21-2008, 04:56 PM
 
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thanks for being honest twinkletoes, ive seen hot girls at the mall like that, theyre still in shape, nice and petite, and theye walking aroung w a John Goodman papa bear fellow, im like wow, dude is lucky!!!
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Old 11-21-2008, 04:56 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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We have marked 19 yrs, in our relationship. We still ''look good'' together....
Luckeeeee .........

(said in my best Napoleon Dynamite voice)
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Old 11-21-2008, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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cuz as she gains weight so do the [know what im saying]
LOL, I know... They're the first ones to go once you lose weight, too.
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