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So the maintenance guy in our apartment complex has dedicated himself to tell my wife little "compliments" here and there. My wife tells me about it but I found no harm. Not because she's my wife but she pretty and has a big butt to go with it. He has said to her (not in my presence of course) that my wife will marry him in two years. Then he'd see her and ask her when are they going to move in together and things like that. I let it go on because I saw no harm.
Then, the other night we went to the store food shopping, the wife went in with my son while I stayed with our daughter and our baby in the truck waiting. He was with this girl we know lives in the complex so when he saw my wie he said to her that the girl she was with works in a motel and she could get him a room for cheap.
So I am staking out the area waiting to see him to confront him about it but, I have a temper that I know will get me into trouble or should I say get him into trouble.
Should I talk to him or let the wife tell him he was out of line?
My hubby would not be happy with this kind of talk!
He would kick his *ss! The motel comment is what would push him over the edge and to be honest, if another female said that to my hubby, I would be p o'ed as well!!!
Not sure what to say other than make sure you have a good friend you can call to come and bail you out!LOL!
You have to let it go and just confront him the next time you see him and he flirts at all with your wife. Don't confront him in a physical manner, but make it clear how unacceptable speaking to your wife in that manner really is! Good luck! I'm in VA! You can call me and Stewart, we'll come getcha!
I talked to the wife and she is going to to talk to him today. I told her I was gonna tell him "my way" and then complain to the main office. She said she'll talk to him in front of me so that made me feel kind of ok.
First, your wife must like the attention from this. She is willing to tell you all about it as if to get your temper up.
I would have her tell him to meet her at the hotel. You will be the only one in the hotel room when he comes in and, well, try not to kill him.
Better yet, have your wife get him in the room and get him naked. Tie him to the bed then she can go excuse herself to the bathroom where you will be waiting. Then you and her can drag the mattress out into a busy intersection. What?
I talked to the wife and she is going to to talk to him today. I told her I was gonna tell him "my way" and then complain to the main office. She said she'll talk to him in front of me so that made me feel kind of ok.
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