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Old 08-09-2010, 11:46 AM
 
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I've known around 3 couples already where BOTH were virgins until their wedding night. They seemed totally healthy to me.
I've known two such couples in the last 2 years, and yes, they were not only extremely healthy both physically and mentally, but spiritually as well
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Old 08-09-2010, 11:49 AM
 
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How in the world can a person over 25, be a virgin cuz they, "aren't healthy physically?" The only thing I would think is an STD, and pretty hard for a virgin to get that unless she is sitting in a lot of Port O Potties.
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Old 08-09-2010, 11:50 AM
 
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I find it sad that people who exercise discipline and live their lives with conviction are viewed as freaks today.
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Old 08-09-2010, 11:51 AM
 
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How in the world can a person over 25, be a virgin cuz they, "aren't healthy physically?" The only thing I would think is an STD, and pretty hard for a virgin to get that unless she is sitting in a lot of Port O Potties.
Maybe they have a crippling disease that limits what they can do ?
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Old 08-09-2010, 11:54 AM
 
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I find it sad that people who exercise discipline and live their lives with conviction are viewed as freaks today.
I don't recall seeing where anyone labeled Virgins a Freak. If I had a daughter I'd love for her to be a virgin when she married but I'd also be aware that very few people wait that long. She might need some advice in birth control at the ripe old age of 16.
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Old 08-09-2010, 11:56 AM
 
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Maybe they have a crippling disease that limits what they can do ?

Or.....

Maybe some people don't treat their penises, like a Trolling Rod; grateful for anything that would take a bite.
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Old 08-09-2010, 11:57 AM
 
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I can agree with that but you also don't know the very intimate details of their sex life and the lack of experience. Also, 3 out of how many couples you know that were not virgins ?
Don't know exact details but they have expressed how things were just beautiful in their wedding night and so on. Same couple I decorated their hotel room, which I talked about in another thread. After about 2 years, they are now expecting a baby. Just spent some time with them last Saturday . When people think about a virgin who's older than 17, they might have this image of the girl/guy who stays in the basement reading comic books or building model planes or something but I've seen these people just do everything you may consider normal: go to parties, flirt, go to the gym and be in shape, travel, and so on. Both of them are pretty good looking. I do know for sure its not common for someone after 17 to be a virgin by desicion.

I even flew to Phoenix, USA, to a wedding where the couple gave each other their first kiss in.....THE ALTAR! They are also still married, 2 children. From the weddings I have been to, I'll say I have been to at least 3 or 4 where BOTH wait until they are married to have sex. All those 3 or 4 couples are still married and look just fine. I don't think waiting or not until marriage to have sex is a guarantee that the marriage will be perfect. To each, their own.
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Old 08-09-2010, 12:00 PM
 
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I personally think virginity is overrated. Granted, at my age I'd have more luck finding the winning lotto numbers then finding a virgin.

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Old 08-09-2010, 12:02 PM
 
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Don't know exact details but they have expressed how things were just beautiful in their wedding night and so on. Same couple I decorated their hotel room, which I talked about in another thread. After about 2 years, they are now expecting a baby. Just spent some time with them last Saturday . When people think about a virgin who's older than 17, they might have this image of the girl/guy who stays in the basement reading comic books or building model planes or something but I've seen these people just do everything you may consider normal: go to parties, flirt, go to the gym and be in shape, travel, and so on. Both of them are pretty good looking. I do know for sure its not common for someone after 17 to be a virgin by desicion.

I even flew to Phoenix, USA, to a wedding where the couple gave each other their first kiss in.....THE ALTAR! They are also still married, 2 children. From the weddings I have been to, I'll say I have been to at least 3 or 4 where BOTH wait until they are married to have sex. All those 3 or 4 couples are still married and look just fine. I don't think waiting or not until marriage to have sex is a guarantee that the marriage will be perfect. To each, their own.
Wish I could post pics of the two couples I know who married as virgins - they are so gorgeous in fact that one couple was in an ad for a very well known brides magazine.

These are very well-rounded, college educated 20 somethings and were proud enough of their virginity to talk about it openly with anyone who wanted to know more about their choice. It's sad to me that our culture today teaches that sex is common and nothing special, when that's just not true.
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Old 08-09-2010, 12:07 PM
 
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I personally think virginity is overrated. Granted, at my age I'd have more luck finding the winning lotto numbers then finding a virgin.
Chow, I'm like you. I've thought over the years that in my experiences in life one thing I've never had is a virgin. Today I don't think I'd be interested because I'd probably be in jail.

I guess in my earlier post I said the age of 25 as being unusual to be a Virgin. That is probably too young of an age, I probably should have said like 32 or 35.

Most people hear of a 40 year old Virgin, they usually wonder what the problem is.
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