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Old 12-30-2008, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Georgia
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Please answer truthfully. Guys in your 30s...DO you prefer a woman who has never been married or a single woman who has been married before? What about never married no kids? Do you think the divorcee is more "normal" and mainstream? I'm 31, never been married, no kids and don't fit into the stereotype mold of the single over 30 woman with baby rabies or the jaded single mother looking for a meal ticket. Being a late bloomer, I find myself more desirable and getting more attention than I did when I was 20. What are your thoughts and why? Thanks!
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Old 12-30-2008, 06:19 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I'm 31, never been married, no kids and don't fit into the stereotype mold of the single over 30 woman with baby rabies or the jaded single mother looking for a meal ticket.
Good God man! With an attitude like this, no wonder you are still single.
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Old 12-30-2008, 06:29 PM
 
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Good God man!
Read the message and the OP's profile. Not a man.
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Old 12-30-2008, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Read the message and the OP's profile. Not a man.
Whatever! That doesn`t change the meaning of my post, regardless.
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Old 12-30-2008, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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Babie rabies?

I learn all kinds of new things here.
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Old 12-30-2008, 06:50 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Im married but I'd like to answer:

Never Married or Divorced woman in her 30s? - Depends on the woman. At face value when reading the question, one would probably say Never Married, but you need to factor in the individual woman, her background, education, experience etc. Many of the "Rock Of Love" girls are in their 30s and never been married and they are gross as fly larvae on a candy bar. Then, you also have some really nice girls who just may not have found the right man yet, or turned down marriage proposals that came from the wrong man.

Childless or with Child woman - Hands down Childless. Nothing worse for a man than a single mom woman in her 30s. Just too much baggage to deal with. Having to deal with the childs father is no fun, or if the childs father isnt even around it says a great deal about the woman's judgement and mental abilities by having a child by such a loser.

I have no idea what Baby Rabies means. Does it mean you want babies? Or does it mean you never want babies?
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Old 12-30-2008, 06:56 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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When the Love grows with the Gal, it Grows with the child also, imho...............................
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Old 12-30-2008, 06:59 PM
 
Location: Land of 10000 Lakes +
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I know married couples who were friends and the guy totally loved the kid -- at first more than the mom. In both instances, the mothers were single, never married.
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Old 12-30-2008, 07:07 PM
 
Location: Eastern Washington
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Certainly when I was 30 much preferred childless, but then again I have never wanted kids.

Never married or divorced - so long as the divorcee is not jaded and transferring baggage from her ex onto me, it didn't make any difference.

Baby Rabies - the ultimate turnoff for me - Gal that just has to get a bun in the oven. No thanks.
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Old 12-30-2008, 07:40 PM
 
Location: I'm not in Kansas Toto.
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I agree with dabeez. I would prefer a woman that has no children. I don't care if she has been or not. I am 43 and have never been married, I don't fit the stereotype either but I don't care. I just prefer things that way.
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