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Old 01-13-2009, 03:11 PM
 
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Exactly as I thought. . . no depth, just empty "type."

Whatever works for ya!

Have that good day now.

Thank you, I am having a wonderful one!
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Old 01-13-2009, 03:16 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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Old 01-13-2009, 03:27 PM
 
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Old 01-13-2009, 03:30 PM
 
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I have thought up some fabulous revenge scenarios in my head, but have not and will not enact any revenge scenario. I will not sink to the same level as the other person. It would make me just as bad as they are.
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Old 01-13-2009, 03:31 PM
 
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I have thought up some fabulous revenge scenarios in my head, but have not and will not enact any revenge scenario. I will not sink to the same level as the other person. It would make me just as bad as they are.

In some situations they do make you worst.
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Old 01-13-2009, 03:44 PM
 
Location: SC
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Of course I have 'plotted' my revenge on someone...but never acted out on it. I always try to take the high road with the satisfaction that Karma does exist & they will get paid back without my help. Sometimes I dont even want revenge as much as I actually feel sorry for someone. I am not one to hold grudges and try not to let someone have that kind of power over me. Life is too short...and this mama aint gettin no younger!
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Old 01-13-2009, 03:45 PM
 
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I used to be a vengeful person a loooooong time ago. I guess it is motherhood that calmed me down. I started looking at everything through the lense of, "What would my kids say if they found out I said/did this?" This usually keeps me on my best behavior.

Usually.
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Old 01-14-2009, 07:50 AM
 
Location: in purgurtory in London
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Anyone who believes in the death penalty believes in revenge so many of you who want to come across angelic here, are vengeful people.

On the other hand I'm soso about revenge. A few years ago I always wanted revenge. Many I thought up and never went through with some I did. Very few back fired and most had the effect I wanted them to have. People would tell me to rely on karma.....but the way I saw it, karma was too slow and I wanted to be in control of how the sons of byatches met theirs.

I live a much more sedate life now, so rarely come across incidents or people that have that sort of effect on me.....well, except for the incident on New Years eve. I'll deal with them at some point, but have more important and worthwhile things to sort out first. Besides knowing just my presence pisses them off is good enough for me.
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Old 01-14-2009, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Chicago, Illinois
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NO WAY! revenge is a brutal cycle that never stops until one's act of revenge goes too far. plus, i believe that what you put into the world will come back at you...sometimes 3 fold.
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:35 AM
 
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Happiness is the best revenge. I refuse to let another have control over my emotions where in the end, it would backfire on me for the ill intent.
Tried to rep you, but I have to spread the love, so here you go.
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