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Ive heard allot of people here say this can you explain why you feel this is true??
JBU1980; Are you the relationship Police or something. Nonsense where did you get that from. You can also turn what you said around but i still agree that you are rubbish. If this is your theory, where have you heard this from and what is your proof. My husband I know deeply loves me just as much as I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM.
I say true. If I KNOW a guy is into me, way more than I am into him, I usually act really 'aloof' in the relationship. Like I could care less if he calls me or not...if he comes over or not...if I'm seen with him or not...
I have heard, the one who shows the less love in a relationship has the power in the relationship. Because the one who shows more love is more vulnerable. I don't necessarily agree or disagree but there may be truth to it in some relationships, if one desires to play the game.
I think it's true that it's usually better if the woman is more in love with the man she is in a relationship in. Women tend to be a lot pickier in general than men, and if a man has to provide for everything she wants in every particular way, then it is a headache !
I think it's true that it's usually better if the woman is more in love with the man she is in a relationship in. Women tend to be a lot pickier in general than men, and if a man has to provide for everything she wants in every particular way, then it is a headache !
Since women tend to hold all or most of the cards, if she isn't into him at least as much as he's into her, don't expect the relationship to last. She will have options and sooner or later, will want to exercise them.
For those who disagree with this analysis, (claiming there are many exceptions) my answer is that women who don't easily attract men, will not be in this situation.
i wish to say something about it ..but my dear friend .. WOMEN are so unpredictable .. they'll expect from u but if u expect from them ..they can be inexplicable in a way that spells DISASTER ! ..lol .. i could be wrong not every women are like that .. but yeah a LOT of them are unpredictable for sure ..in my opinion of course ..
This is a joke!!
It must be.....any relationship I may or may not have has to be one of equals.
I've been told this is impossible , but that , IMO , is BS!!!
You have to treat everyone equally , regardless of gender or 'preprogrammed gender roles'. That means I cook , clean and perform other duties at equal intervals with her.
Unless she didn't feel like it , then I'd do it all!!
It's the way it shall be.
Western women(not all), especially American women(not all) as a whole don't like men, they like the image of a man. What he can do for her.
Western women do this as a way of a protection shield, should she find someone else better. Women in general have more dating options than men, unless the guy is really wealthy or famous. Women already have a guy they want when they are in a less than satisfactory relationship.
Regardless of what we have been told, women do not spend that much time without a man, as a whole.
It seems as if men lose in this way because of the complaints of women that their men don't listen, don't take care of their emotional needs, if a guy were to do that and the woman not state what she will do for her man, that immediately gives the woman more power in the relationship.
Women are taught that the guy must do most of the work in a relationship automatically giving her the upper hand in the relationship, today's women want power and control over men.
That's the way unfortunately relationships work in western society, selfishness at its core.
And women say they have it harder in dating.
A good woman will be as giving as she expects her man and treat him the way she would want to be treated.
I've heard, "You need be with a man who loves you more than you love him." I can see where I'd benefit from that, but what about him? Doesn't seem fair.
Well PassTheChocolate, I commend you for caring about and considering the needs of the man.
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