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Old 02-12-2009, 08:58 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Put your crops and floggers away, I don't mean THAT kind of submissive.

Some men view us as domineering, immasculating tyrants who want a man to cower and cater to our every whim. I don't see the intrigue in that at all.

What are your thoughts on this? Do any of you actually enjoy this?
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Old 02-12-2009, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I don't see the intrigue in that at all.
Heh, neither do I, BUT

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What are your thoughts on this? Do any of you actually enjoy this?
it's perfect in certain contexts - say marriage!

I personally look at your thread as yet another wording of the quintessential bad vs. nice and BF material vs. husband material or <insert your choice of male star> loading the dishwasher topics.
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Old 02-12-2009, 11:37 PM
 
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I personally look at your thread as yet another wording of the quintessential bad vs. nice and BF material vs. husband material or <insert your choice of male star> loading the dishwasher topics.
Mmmmm, nah. Just wondering if there are people that actually find pleasure in being with a wimp.
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Old 02-12-2009, 11:39 PM
 
Location: southern california
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stay single stay away stay safe stay affluent stay free.
being single is never having to say you are sorry.
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Old 02-12-2009, 11:47 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Put your crops and floggers away, I don't mean THAT kind of submissive.

Some men view us as domineering, immasculating tyrants who want a man to cower and cater to our every whim. I don't see the intrigue in that at all.

What are your thoughts on this? Do any of you actually enjoy this?

It's really interesting to me that "submissive" nowadays has a kind of negative ring.. I think some of the sexiest women in the world are submissive types... the bible says for women to 'submit' to their men.. this does not mean to be a wimp and give up total power by any means. I think when a woman is submissive she is more in alignment with her naturalness-- even more powerful. To me it's a huge turn on.. but today the word 'submissive' is a 'bad' thing
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Old 02-12-2009, 11:53 PM
 
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It's really interesting to me that "submissive" nowadays has a kind of negative ring.. I think some of the sexiest women in the world are submissive types... the bible says for women to 'submit' to their men.. this does not mean to be a wimp and give up total power by any means. I think when a woman is submissive she is more in alignment with her naturalness-- even more powerful. To me it's a huge turn on.. but today the word 'submissive' is a 'bad' thing
I don't mean accomodating. I mean submissive in the way of not having a mind of your own. The "whatever you say" thing.
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Old 02-13-2009, 12:54 AM
 
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What are you talking about. Women already control the vast majority of spending power indirectly in this country. They are the ones who decide what to buy.

There is a good saying I learned in my business classes:

"Get the women, get the children and the men will follow"

Which means advertise to women because they are the ones who control the money. Also you get the children because the women teach the children, you see?

Most men are enslaved by their sex drive. They'll succumb to a woman's power just because they are addicted to the sex. They love it. They're addicted to it.

As a man, one of the most liberating things is to be able to satisfy oneself without submitting to a woman. It gives me the power to say NO. No I am not going to get in a relationship, No I am not going to buy you a drink, No I am not going to buy you a valentines day gift, no no no no!

It is also a confidence builder. Telling a woman no and you making the rules is a turn on for women. Women like men and men have testosterone. The traits of testosterone are: Aggressiveness, risk taking and leadership. It is an obsolete trait for the most part of our non hunter/gather society but that is how women were built over thousands of years. Go after a dominate male because he provides the best protection and usually the most resources.
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Old 02-13-2009, 05:01 AM
 
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Most men are enslaved by their sex drive. They'll succumb to a woman's power just because they are addicted to the sex. They love it. They're addicted to it.
This is true
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Old 02-13-2009, 05:20 AM
 
Location: Whoville....
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stay single stay away stay safe stay affluent stay free.
being single is never having to say you are sorry.
There's a lot of truth in that.

When I got married, at the ripe old age of 19, I had no idea how long the rest of my life would be . In hind sight, not being married would have been much easier. Of course you can't tell THAT to a 19 year old who knows EVERYTHING
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Old 02-13-2009, 07:16 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I think that no matter the outcome if you achieve submission by dominating someone then even in the back of the small mind of the dominant one they know its not out of love "the gifts they receive"

Would I like a domineering mate, heck no!
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