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Old 04-08-2009, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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That is seriously not supportive.
Hey dude....lol....I`m not against what she does, but don`t bring it to me!

 
Old 04-08-2009, 04:41 PM
 
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What makes you think she would do that? That sounds pretty judgmental.

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Hey dude....lol....I`m not against what she does, but don`t bring it to me!
 
Old 04-08-2009, 04:43 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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What makes you think she would do that? That sounds pretty judgmental.
Because....she has been in love with me for years....in her own drunken words one night.
 
Old 04-08-2009, 04:44 PM
 
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That is stupid. She is not in love with you. Believe me.

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Because....she has been in love with me for years....in her own drunken words one night.
 
Old 04-08-2009, 04:46 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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That is stupid. She is not in love with you. Believe me.
Bha ha ha ha ....well, I would have thought not either, but when she was deciding to tell me all about it, that came up, and well??? Hello, to you too. Just don`t touch me in that way, and we will still be friends!
I may add, that she is a childhood friend from wayyy back when..
 
Old 04-08-2009, 04:48 PM
 
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Whatever, if any friend of mine told me they loved me in a sexual way, I would feel offended by that.

The person would have to understand that that is not love in any way shape or form.

The best way is have a discussion about dating if there is mutual attraction and see how that works out.

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Originally Posted by yankeegirl313 View Post
Bha ha ha ha ....well, I would have thought not either, but when she was deciding to tell me all about it, that came up, and well??? Hello, to you too. Just don`t touch me in that way, and we will still be friends!
 
Old 04-08-2009, 04:48 PM
 
Location: Land of 10000 Lakes +
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Say a gay colleague, acquaintance of friend you weren't very closed to you got the wrong signals or something and passionately kissed you on the lips. What would you do/say to that person?.[/quote]

I would feel just as put out if a hetero did it.
 
Old 04-08-2009, 04:48 PM
 
Location: Seattle
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Bha ha ha ha ....well, I would have thought not either, but when she was deciding to tell me all about it, that came up, and well??? Hello, to you too. Just don`t touch me in that way, and we will still be friends!
Now that comment was too funny!!
 
Old 04-08-2009, 04:51 PM
 
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Thank God I am asexual and do not have to put up with too much of that junk at all ever.


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Say a gay colleague, acquaintance of friend you weren't very closed to you got the wrong signals or something and passionately kissed you on the lips. What would you do/say to that person?.
I would feel just as put out if a hetero did it.[/quote]
 
Old 04-08-2009, 04:51 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Originally Posted by artsyguy View Post
Whatever, if any friend of mine told me they loved me in a sexual way, I would feel offended by that.

The person would have to understand that that is not love in any way shape or form.

The best way is have a discussion about dating if there is mutual attraction and see how that works out.
She did not tell me that she was in love with me, in a sexual way...just that she was in love with me, and has been for years.
After she tells me that she is gay...so....how am I suppose to take that?
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