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Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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My ex had a best friend who was always trying to split us up then hang around to watch the fireworks. I had no idea he was in the middle of it all. I learned later that he was often telling my now-ex that he'd like to [bleep] his wife (me). I couldn't believe he didn't punch the p/o/s in the nose but he took it as a compliment. Just one more reason he's my ex. I actually liked his friend. I had no idea what was lurking behind the facade.
As I get older I'm getting way to cranky and fiesty to put up with any BS. If Mrs. Chow had any friends that were playing games or acting in a way that was disruptive, I'd have not problem cutting them off. I'm like Frank Sinatra that way.
I really like my boyfriend's best friend from his high school and college days that now lives in NC. I encourage him to go down to visit. They go camping and other guy stuff. Up here, he's been through a couple of close friends. Some have moved away. One is in the beginning of a romance and he's never available anymore. He's always talking to her on Skype when she's not visiting him (she lives in NYC). His current new buddy is cool. I like him and they go off on motorcycle rides. His friend isn't into hot shot riding so their rides are very safe. They go off riding and I get more time with my puppies.
I have don't a SO anymore but when I did back in the day, I think they were sluts. They would go to bars/clubs and hook up with guys. Some would go on myspace/facebook and hook up there. Of course you can only guess why we broke up, SHE CHEATED ON ME!
Of course in the long run that was great because now I am that guy these girls hook up with in bars/clubs. Serious relationships? No thanks, been there done that.
Just remember, your SO's friends are a reflection of who he/she is! If her friends are out banging random guys. Guess what, your SO is probably into the exact same thing. People choose friends who are similar to them in likes and interests.
My ex boyfriends' friend was kind of jealous of my boyfriend and I. But I never really said anything negative about him. It was my boyfriend who started not to like him much after his friend tried meddling in our affairs. Even though he had said he would take a bullet for his friend, he really wanted to dump him after his friend wanted him to behave like he had no feelings for me and move on. He couldn't understand why his friend was so cold. Then he figured the guy was probably jealous and my then boyfriend just wasn't liking that one bit.
I can't understand why my SO likes some of the people he does. But, the friends that are the closest to him are, in my mind, truly good people and really good friends. So, when it comes to those who are merely "acquaintances", I can put up with quite a lot.
I kinda do sometimes, and others I don't. She really has a smart ass attitude, and my girlfriend is picking up on that. Not only that, but also picking up her smart ass mannerisms. Treats me like crap when she hangs out with her friend too.
well when the busboy whispers in her ear are you coming over tonight i usually dump the new found SO.
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