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Wait so this lady is a stripper and yet she is freaking out because her FIL wants to see her vagina? Let him see your vagina hell everyone else has including Father John. If it will make you feel better ask him to slip you a 20
Can you read? No one is a stripper here. I'm an EX-STRIPPER!
Okay say you have been going to this gynecologist for
many years you meet the gynecologist son one day
and you fall in love and get married and become pregnant
Do you get a new gynecologist because he is now your
father-n-law?
My FIL (father in law) wants to be the gyno at our baby's delivery. I'm very uncomfortable with him seeing my vagina.
How do you draw the line when it comes to who sees your vagina?
I'm no longer a paid stripper & as such I prefer to keep my wares to myself.
Ladies, whom did you allow to see your vagina during childbirth? Also, did you video record that process?
Is it even okay to have your SO see you like that? I imagine the s*x goes south after he has seen you push put 9pounds through your vagina? Miss Loosy-goosy??. On the other hand, I could use his support & I want him to see the birth of our first child but... the s*x not turn off men after they view a woman as a loosy-goosy?
Edit title: Not offended lets say he's disappointed!
I might as well throw this one in here...the lil issue of breastfeeding in public.???
Girl I agree with you, there is NOT a chance I would allow that. Personally I wouldn't want anyone else in the room AND how insensetive of him to even make this an issue. Its your body and it should be UP TO YOU !!
I can't imagine having someone film me giving birth, I wouldn't allow someone to take a picture of me down there without a baby coming out, I don't see that being in labor and all that entails should make a difference.
As to breastfeeding, if you can do it where your covered up then I am fine with it but I personally could not let my breast hang out in public. I saw a woman one time in the mall, her husband was standing over her, she had a baby blanket over her so you couldn't see anything, that seems like the reasonable thing to do.
Okay say you have been going to this gynecologist for
many years you meet the gynecologist son one day
and you fall in love and get married and become pregnant
Do you get a new gynecologist because he is now your
father-n-law?
There is no right or wrong answer here! It depends on what you are comfortable with. Personally I'm not comfy with family members seeing my vagina.
Pregnancy and delivery and all the changes it brings is hard enough without things like this.
Set up ahead of time what is comfortable for you. When I worked at the hospital, I had seen Mothers who wanted NO ONE at the birth but family rushed in to watch it all no matter what she said.
I spoke with my doctor ahead of time and told her that I didn't want this to become a circus or spectator sport.
I would do the same if I were you, tell your doctor what you want and if your in laws aren't listening then your doctor will order them out of the room if you have a good doctor.
Can you read? No one is a stripper here. I'm an EX-STRIPPER!
Can't you tell, banks? Many here are obsessed with that "stripper" part. I'm sure some of the folks are attaching a face to you to complete their fantasies LMAO
As for the ladies, I can't speak for them in terms of their obsession. But CT Pam's watermelon talk knocked me off my chair. Think of octomom and eight watermelons. OUCH.
No wonder you're popular. You can start a new thread, see it get fat. It might even set a new world record, let me fetch my stop watch
After watchin my first being born, I wished I had not. I think they had it right in the old days when the husband stayed in the waiting room.
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