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Relationships in your twenties have virtually zero meaning or depth. People in their twenties think a relationship is holding hands out in public at some stupid bookstore and purchasing each other flowers for Valentines Day. Oh, I almost forgot, passionless sex is involved. The guy is finished in 3 minutes, rolls over, passes gas, and goes to sleep snoring his face off, as the chick lays there unsatisfied and feeling ignored.
There is so much more to sexuality than that too. I am surprised at the people who don't pursue anything else. For me, sex is the relief at the end of the erotic/arousal road. It isn't the whole trip.
But I am getting more and more convinced that guys like really bland sex, because from posts on here and other forums, they pick women who either do not like sex, or very limited styles.
Which is odd, because they lead you to believe they want a lot of wild sex. How confusing.
I'm debating whether or not to pursue one. I really could use some guidance in regards to learning how to dance (I got the basics of two stepping down, but with a good partner, I could get better and learn all the different ways to spin/twirl a girl around a dance hall). Sex would probably complicate things, so it's not something I'm lookin for (good luck finding a woman that will agree to that). I guess the perfect candidate would be in her upper 20's and recently divorced. Anyone ever have a relationship similar to what I'm describing? Closer then a friend, but not quite a lover so to speak. What did you learn from it? Any regrets? I wanna hear about the good, the bad, and the ugly.
I had to read that 10 times to make sure I read correctly. Then I looked at your age. Then I read it again.
what...the...****ing...hell???
edit: and then I read your profile and again I say....
Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry!
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Originally Posted by TexianPatriot
I'm debating whether or not to pursue one. I really could use some guidance in regards to learning how to dance (I got the basics of two stepping down, but with a good partner, I could get better and learn all the different ways to spin/twirl a girl around a dance hall). Sex would probably complicate things, so it's not something I'm lookin for (good luck finding a woman that will agree to that). I guess the perfect candidate would be in her upper 20's and recently divorced. Anyone ever have a relationship similar to what I'm describing? Closer then a friend, but not quite a lover so to speak. What did you learn from it? Any regrets? I wanna hear about the good, the bad, and the ugly.
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Originally Posted by artsyguy
Relationships in your twenties have virtually zero meaning or depth. People in their twenties think a relationship is holding hands out in public at some stupid bookstore and purchasing each other flowers for Valentines Day. Oh, I almost forgot, passionless sex is involved. The guy is finished in 3 minutes, rolls over, passes gas, and goes to sleep snoring his face off, as the chick lays there unsatisfied and feeling ignored.
ok so if he wants a fling with no sex, then dancing is the perfect venue.
Take lots of dance classes, go to lots of dances, and soon you will have a bevy of dance partners with romance and grace and beauty and music galore, and all of it safe because it is limited to the dance floor
it's very satsifying and delightful
that's why dance is so fun and people do it for several nights a week for many years on end, because it is so fulfilling
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