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Yes, and as I said, the women will like a man because of his personality but inspite of his looks, not because of them.
Can you imagine being with someone and knowing, in the back of your head, that they are not physically attracted to you? That will probably be my fate and the fate of other men like me and it is a very depressing thought.
I could honestly contradict each one of your sentences with stories from my own life. However, I don't think you have any interest in listening to anything other than the sound of your own self-pity. I'm sorry you are having a rough time of things, and I hope you find your way out of the darkness. Good luck to you.
There has long been a correlation between women's social position and the meat in the grocery aisle... and in consumers approach to them. Take, for example, the expectation that the best meat is blood red, as are so many women's lips. All dressed up and dyed, the meat in the grocery aisle is synonomous with a healthy steak. I always cringe when I see a guy holding the meat up close and inspecting it. If he knew anything about what a real fresh steak were like, he wouldn't bother.
I don't see the problem with comparing women to meat. I really don't.
Yes, and as I said, the women will like a man because of his personality but inspite of his looks, not because of them.
Can you imagine being with someone and knowing, in the back of your head, that they are not physically attracted to you? That will probably be my fate and the fate of other men like me and it is a very depressing thought.
You are really showing how little you know about people and how they relate to each other. Many MANY people are in relationships that developed out of an attraction for something other than of a physical nature. It takes time, but people DO fall in love with someone that they never were attracted to, initially. Sometimes with a type that they never in a million years pictured themselves with. And those people DO become physically attracted to their partner...it's part of something called "love".
And I can assure you that if you don't figure out how to climb out of this poor-pitiful-me hole that you keep digging, you'll never experience anything other than what you have already.
And might I add (since I deliberately misinterpreted the point) my favorite boyfriend of all time was... not very attractive at first glance. But wow. He was the most fun. I still, out of the 3 months we were together, remember more about our relationship than about any other.
You are really showing how little you know about people and how they relate to each other. Many MANY people are in relationships that developed out of an attraction for something other than of a physical nature. It takes time, but people DO fall in love with someone that they never were attracted to, initially. Sometimes with a type that they never in a million years pictured themselves with. And those people DO become physically attracted to their partner...it's part of something called "love".
No. It's a part of something called "denial"
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And I can assure you that if you don't figure out how to climb out of this poor-pitiful-me hole that you keep digging, you'll never experience anything other than what you have already.
A spot on observation. Men are much much much more open-minded when it comes to the types of women they are willing to date. While women are much pickier. Even my not so attractive female friends have hoards and hoards of guys lighting up their cell phones wanting to "hang out".
Surely you jest. You haven't been to a dating site. Men cross that line when so many of them want a woman half their age.
I think i kinda understand what hes saying,i think hes saying womens view of whats physically attractive or hot is allot more smaller and less diverse then what guys version of good lookign or attractive is in general..
Ive heard women say that they love there husband/boyfriend even though hes ugly and thought to myself why would u say that about your husband or boyfriend
Ive had pelnty of male friends whove gone out with what i thought were homely women and never heard them say anything slightly negative looks wise about there s/o
I think the op has to understand women are allot more insecure from things they hear about the standard of beauty from an early age so if they are told strict guideines from a young age of what beauty is for females theyre gonna look at men the same way and not see beauty in any diverse way its gonna be a very narrow view of what society says is attractive..
[quote=JBT1980;9187297]I think i kinda understand what hes saying,i think hes saying womens view of whats physically attractive or hot is allot more smaller and less diverse then what guys version of good lookign or attractive is in general..[quote]
THANK YOU! FINALLY SOMEONE SEES THE OBVIOUS!
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Ive heard women say that they love there husband/boyfriend even though hes ugly and thought to myself why would u say that about your husband or boyfriend
Exactly.
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Ive had pelnty of male friends whove gone out with what i thought were homely women and never heard them say anything slightly negative looks wise about there s/o
That's because your "homely" might be their "hottie"
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I think the op has to understand women are allot more insecure from things they hear about the standard of beauty from an early age so if they are told strict guideines from a young age of what beauty is for females theyre gonna look at men the same way and not see beauty in any diverse way its gonna be a very narrow view of what society says is attractive..
So, in other words, women are more likely to be a bunch of mindless "sheeple" who do and think what ever the TV and "US Weekly" tells them to think? Very true indeed.
I have actually been told that the best thing for me to do is move somewhere where there actually are some goth/punk/alternative kind of women and not the mindless "Britney wannabees" we have around here.
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