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Old 06-14-2009, 03:14 AM
 
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Alright here it is:

Instead of sitting on the sidelines waiting for prince charming to come, you should instead go and seek out the type of man you want. So if you go to a bar or club don't go dancing with your lesbian friends waiting for some random guy to come and flirt with you. Got that?

Discuss!
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Old 06-14-2009, 04:49 AM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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Cha-ching! This thread is going to be so win.

Oh, and since that accent thread, talk with an Australian accent, I think that had consensus, at least from the guys in it.
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Old 06-14-2009, 07:35 AM
 
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Alright here it is:

Instead of sitting on the sidelines waiting for prince charming to come, you should instead go and seek out the type of man you want. So if you go to a bar or club don't go dancing with your lesbian friends waiting for some random guy to come and flirt with you. Got that?

Discuss!

Or better yet...

They can do what that nice young lady does who posted on how to signal your SO you are in the mood....

...just walk up and put 'it' in his face.

If women were more forward and just came up and told the man that she finds him hot and interesting....men would follow them out of the club like a puppy to a piece of steak. Women have the power...they just don't know how to use it.
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Old 06-14-2009, 07:56 AM
 
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Alright here it is:

Instead of sitting on the sidelines waiting for prince charming to come, you should instead go and seek out the type of man you want. So if you go to a bar or club don't go dancing with your lesbian friends waiting for some random guy to come and flirt with you. Got that?

Discuss!
If I were up dancing with my girlfriends (and I'd not be dancing with them if they were lesbians! ) believe me I'm not looking for a man. I'm out partying, probably celebrating something. So no, I'm not waiting for you or anyone else to "come and flirt with me". Got that?
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Old 06-14-2009, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Bay Area
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if a woman comes on to me, not aggressively, i would be so flattered
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Old 06-14-2009, 08:35 AM
 
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Alright here it is:

Instead of sitting on the sidelines waiting for prince charming to come, you should instead go and seek out the type of man you want. So if you go to a bar or club don't go dancing with your lesbian friends waiting for some random guy to come and flirt with you. Got that?

Discuss!
Did this happen to you last night?
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Old 06-14-2009, 08:54 AM
 
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Alright here it is:

Instead of sitting on the sidelines waiting for prince charming to come, you should instead go and seek out the type of man you want. So if you go to a bar or club don't go dancing with your lesbian friends waiting for some random guy to come and flirt with you. Got that?

Discuss!

I had one woman approach me in my life, and I essentially cursed her out and sent her away in tears. Not to say that women should never flirt, just that there is a right and wrong way to do it.

Just smile and make eye contact first. If the man makes a face and looks away, then obviously he is not intrested and should be avoided.

Really, your parents were right ultimately: Never talk to strangers.

Meeting someone at a bar or club is not a good idea. Let your friends introduce you or something. Meet people some other way, but any place where alchohol and possibly drugs are involved is never a good idea. PERIOD.
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Old 06-14-2009, 02:07 PM
 
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If I were up dancing with my girlfriends (and I'd not be dancing with them if they were lesbians! )
Why not?
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Old 06-14-2009, 02:18 PM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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Or better yet...

They can do what that nice young lady does who posted on how to signal your SO you are in the mood....

...just walk up and put 'it' in his face.

If women were more forward and just came up and told the man that she finds him hot and interesting....men would follow them out of the club like a puppy to a piece of steak. Women have the power...they just don't know how to use it.
What is "it?" I missed that part of the thread...lol...

Anyway, I always approach men, not sure what you guys are talking about you would think it's a rarity but not in my world...
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Old 06-14-2009, 04:26 PM
 
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Unless I find a guy who is totally my type, I won't bother with any guy. But I totally get where your coming from. If I was less discriminating and more horny, I would totally go up to guys all the time.
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