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Old 06-15-2009, 05:24 PM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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And used that as a reason to break up with me.

Sad.
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Old 06-15-2009, 08:45 PM
 
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Someone else moved into the picture.
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Old 06-15-2009, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Oh, that really stinks, Mearth! I'm so sorry!
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Old 06-15-2009, 10:37 PM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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I guess that's possible, Malamute. He said "it's not like there's someone else," but I didn't even ASK him if there was someone else.

Thanks, Teatime.
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Old 06-15-2009, 10:42 PM
 
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I guess that's possible, Malamute. He said "it's not like there's someone else," but I didn't even ASK him if there was someone else.

Thanks, Teatime.
There is someone else, count on it. Probably someone who he was also interested in, but not sure where it would lead, he was keeping his options open in case the first one fell through. Or else it's someone who he previously cared about that moved back into the picture.

That's why the suddenness.
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Old 06-15-2009, 10:50 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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And used that as a reason to break up with me.

Sad.
Yeah, I'd have to at least initially agree with the others...Some can feel that they're moving too fast even having said it, but you sure as hell don't use that as an excuse to break up with them.

I'm sorry to hear that though, for your sake.
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Old 06-15-2009, 11:16 PM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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If that's true, this is the 2nd time that's happened this year.

The last time, it was a sudden break-up... after he showed up hungover to a party I'd been planning for weeks, because he'd hung out with the guys the night before. He was acting weird, then broke up with me over email 2 days later.

This is a whole new trend to me - not a regular pattern.
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Old 06-16-2009, 12:09 AM
 
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Well it's possible that the first guy completely freaked out and got himself into big mess but you don't need someone like that in your life anyway.

Reckon the bloke you mentioned in your last post definitely did something on his boys night out.

Either way you truly deserve better than that crap so chalk it up to them not you and keep on moving forward.
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Old 06-16-2009, 12:12 AM
 
Location: southern california
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people give gifts
they make invitations
the say i love you
they write things on card board with marxalot and stand on street corners
they have their reasons
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Old 06-16-2009, 02:51 AM
 
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Mearth i'm sorry about what happened. I can completely understand because I was in the same boat a few months ago. The guy was obviously seeing someone else and he kept telling me that there was no one else. Liar. All he really wanted was sex, not true intimacy. When he found more sex elsewhere, he dumped me without a simple explanation, just that we were not meant to be. The truth was I was dating a no good liar with a huge desire for sex and experimentation. He got someone kinky to his liking and he lost his mind. Well , I didn't lose anything, but it still hurted. Now I am doing better. You will too. Last year I had 3 boyfriends in one year, so just keep looking, another guy will show up that will win you over in no time. Forget the loser.
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