Lot of women don't realize this is TOO MUCH INFORMATION (how to, marrying)
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Yep, I don't waste two seconds on the girls that were "wild" and now all the sudden want to settle down. I remember one gal who wanted me and was ready to settle down but had spent the past 10 years smoking dope and banging every scuffy hippie dude that came along. No thanks.
That is the one thing with American women is they are extremely lazy and expect the men to carry all the water for them in developing a relationship. I make it known it's a two way street and if they don't like that there is the door.
I agree with this. There are women you marry and women you have fun with. You can't turn a ho into a housewife.
Like me, I'm not the marrying kind. I have spent the last 10 years smoking dope and sleeping with different guys. A lot of guys consider me a "catch" due to the fact that I've never been married, no kids, I have no debt, I have several college degrees, and a career that pays my bills and then some, my family has money, I'm well travelled, etc., but I tell them "You don't want me for anything serious, trust me." And it's true. Every serious r/ship I've been in I've gotten bored and/or sabatoged it. I can't even imagine getting married right now. Why give up freedom so I can be bogged down with a husband and kids? Wives/mothers are basically free domestic servants as far as I see it. They carry the brunt of the work/responsibilities and get less in return. (Except for the cases where the husband is extremely rich.) This could change though if I ever fall really in love with a man and want to join my life with him, but that's a long shot. I think I just wasn't intended to be the married with kids type. Some women are and some aren't. Enough about me though...
Of course it is possible for people to change. Some people might have gone through some sort of personal transformation, maybe they regret their past choices and have truly reformed and changed. This could happen.
Boy between you and killer I don't know who's more appealing!!
Just because someone says they partied but are ready for something serious doesn't mean they went around sleeping with all kinds of guys, how are you making that connection? Partying does not always = sex. It means dancing, hanging out in bars with friends, and maybe drinking a bit too much sometimes.
You guys need to get a clue. And btw I wouldn't want either of you if you went around having a bunch of sexual partners. What's good for the goose.... Women don't like male sluts.
Hippocrites with double standards, you are! You want to sleep with whoever you can but they wouldn't be good enough to marry? Then neither are you. You men want everything. We want sex but if you give it up you're a low life. We want to marry good girls who look and act like porn stars in the bedroom. Oh and you'd better have an education, a good job, oh and btw cook for me and clean up after me and any kids we may have even though you work full-time too. That's the lazy American MAN for ya!
And btw killer, who says women in relationships or even marriages don't want fun stuff like threesomes?
Well sweetie for one I'm not a manwhore out banging random chicks. I'm very selective and I'm also not out on the prowl in bars picking them up. I don't roll around in rubbish.
Neither do I need someone to cook or clean for me, I do both myself thank you.
I think there are a lot of women that went out there and did sleep with random guys, do drugs, get drunk often and then once everything starts to fade quickly suddenly declares themselves reformed. I don't buy it and for me it's not appealing as a partner.
Well sweetie for one I'm not a manwhore out banging random chicks. I'm very selective and I'm also not out on the prowl in bars picking them up. I don't roll around in rubbish.
Neither do I need someone to cook or clean for me, I do both myself thank you.
I think there are a lot of women that went out there and did sleep with random guys, do drugs, get drunk often and then once everything starts to fade quickly suddenly declares themselves reformed. I don't buy it and for me it's not appealing as a partner.
We all have our preferences, sure. But men have a long history of sowing their oats before settling down and many have managed to make great husbands and fathers.
People do a lot of things when they are young that they genuinely grow out of with time. It's a reality that we are not always the same person and do the same things all our lives, whether it be good or bad. It doesn't make one insincere when they make the decision to settle down or less worthy of something meaningful.
Well sweetie for one I'm not a manwhore out banging random chicks. I'm very selective and I'm also not out on the prowl in bars picking them up. I don't roll around in rubbish.
Neither do I need someone to cook or clean for me, I do both myself thank you.
I think there are a lot of women that went out there and did sleep with random guys, do drugs, get drunk often and then once everything starts to fade quickly suddenly declares themselves reformed. I don't buy it and for me it's not appealing as a partner.
That's cool you're not a manwhore. That's very admirable actually. Lots of guys just get greedy and do anything just to get laid. It's disgusting.
But anyways, I think you could be taking this a little far. I mean, everybody has a past right? Everybody was single at one point and probably partied a little bit, in college, and some after. Would you really want a girl who just spent all her weekends at home knitting? Wouldn't that be kind of boring? Don't you want a girl who is a little adventurous and wants to live life to the fullest?
I mean, some girls DO take it too far, I agree with that. But there is a difference between complete whoreness, and normal single life, without the girl having to live like a nun until she's married.
But she is gloating because she has men to contact for sex. No matter how you try to explain it sounds strange
She's not gloating!! She's stating that she is specifically looking for something more. There are "dating" sites out there that exist for the sole purpose of finding someone to have sex with - and if she wanted that, she'd be on one of those. Instead she has chosen a legitimate dating site.
You need to read it this way: " I am really frustrated with the disgusting and inappropriate responses I get to my profile. Hopefully, I will find a nice guy who will not email me a picture of his d!ck."
I see a lot of ads or hear a lot of ads when a woman says-
"please don't respond if you are looking for just sex because if I really wanted to have sex I can easily call someone. I want something a lot deeper"
Why in the hell does a guy need to know that she has a FWB?????????????????
Too much information
I think the problem is in the translation. She isn't saying she has a FWB, she's saying that if all she wants is sex, that's easy to find and the reason why she's online is because she wants a real relationship.
But I do find it interesting that a guy would translate that phrase into "I have a FWB".
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