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View Poll Results: Look at Porn in your Happy Relationship?
Yes 16 66.67%
No 8 33.33%
Voters: 24. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 07-27-2009, 02:39 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Blue's Love View Post
nope, i told him if I am getting the sex i want then he can do it sometimes...
I just don't like the porn part.
Is it porn, is it because it's not porn of you?


Because there's a solution for that...
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Old 07-27-2009, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Pinellas Park, FL
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Is it porn, is it because it's not porn of you?


Because there's a solution for that...
it wouldn't matter - he has to have variety and that is how he get it.

but yes, if it were of me i would be ok with it.
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Old 07-27-2009, 03:26 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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Blue's love what is your favorite food?
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Old 07-27-2009, 03:31 PM
 
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Is it porn, is it because it's not porn of you?


Because there's a solution for that...
You know, that's the question of the day. Because the stuff we like to watch is along the lines of the Red Shoes Diaries. You know, well lit, well-photographed stuff. The stuff that is shot in somebody's pine-paneled basement with an off-the-shelf video camera isn't very appealing at all.
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Old 07-27-2009, 06:16 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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This is coming from a female...sorry... but, if they are content, and happpy with their SO, then why should they have any deisire to loo
k at the smut?
I have to ask the same question. Why window shop if you're not looking to buy?
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Old 07-27-2009, 06:19 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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Sorry, I also want to add that you can look at the reverse of this if you're trying to understand why a man in a healthy relationship would view porn. Why would a woman in a healthy relationship watch a romantic movie or read a romantic novel?
You're comparing a romantic movie to porn? If that were the case, all romantic movies would be rated X.
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Old 07-27-2009, 06:41 PM
 
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You're comparing a romantic movie to porn? If that were the case, all romantic movies would be rated X.
In his defense, most people get the equivalent of "x-rated" romantic novels...
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Old 07-31-2009, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Tampa
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Please elaborate:

What role does porn have in a "healthy" relationship? Would it matter either way?
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Old 07-31-2009, 09:23 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Please elaborate:

What role does porn have in a "healthy" relationship? Would it matter either way?

Porn has a place in a relationship, if someone wants it and the other agrees, otherwise no...

I'm getting a little weary of these f ing porn threads.

It's like going to a carnival, its only fun if we all agree its fun.
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Old 07-31-2009, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Are there any women who won't watch some stupid love movie to fall into a fantasy of some guy who touches her oh so gently and says all this beautiful b.s. to make her fall into this fantasy.

Yeah. Men are visual. That's why women are reading these romance novels with the half naked men on the covers. Goes both ways.
Yeah I guess so....but it seems men need it more.
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