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Old 11-04-2012, 03:00 PM
 
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I just go out and occupy my mind. I hit up a few clubs and just get my mind off of things. However, I do deal with my broken heart.
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Old 11-04-2012, 03:56 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I get a new one from the freezer. Sometimes they're not quite the right size, but c'est la vie.

Ooh, that reminds me, have to buy some new one's at the grocers tomorrow, I'm running low.
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Old 11-04-2012, 04:20 PM
 
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no way--- men do not have feelings. google look up decription of calf roping under rodeo and substitute "man" for "calf".
same perception.
this is why men commit suicide and women only attempt suicide.
its bek men do not have feelings.
this is why we have such low divorce rate in america
good understanding of men.
I concur. I actually think men have it tougher than women when dealing with this sort of thing. Women have stronger bonds between each other and it's much more acceptable for them to approach each other in these situations. Guys can either go the self-destructive/vindictive route or sulk in silence. Common guy advice is to "go out and bang a bunch of sluts." That's not healthy. Neither is alternating between rage and despondency. Guys are also really reluctant to open up to women because they feel doing so would make them look like "lesser" men and that's actually true for certain types of women. Guys just can't win.

Nothing is really more unpredictable than a guy with a broken heart. I mean, that's why a lot of murders and suicide happen.

Love is such a beautiful thing...
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Old 11-04-2012, 05:03 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I just get bummed out for a bit.
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Old 11-04-2012, 05:09 PM
 
Location: living in OKLA. heart in Alaska
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best way to get over a woman, get on another one,often
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Old 11-04-2012, 05:10 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Do men have broken hearts, too?
Why do you think alcohol sells so well? This is one way (some) men deal with grief and loss.
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Old 11-04-2012, 06:26 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Why do you think alcohol sells so well? This is one way (some) men deal with grief and loss.

Sometimes, it's a pretty good cause of it as well.
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Old 11-04-2012, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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After me and my ex broke up he started smoking a lot of weed and going to raves and doing E with his friends. I always hated that he did it so he ramped it up into overdrive once he didn't have me 'nagging' him about it. Then, he started dating a girl MUCH more attractive than me and 'accidentally' sent me pictures of her all the time. He also sent me very angry emails about how breaking up was the 'worst mistake I'll ever make' etc. I ended up changing my email and phone number. Turns out it was the best decision I ever made.

As for my guy friends, most of them are pretty happy about breaking up because they get to go out and drink and bang more chicks. A lot of them don't have the cajones to break up with their girls themselves, so they make their lives miserable until their girlfriend breaks up with them. Then, they're happy they're free!

I think I've only had 2 guy friends that were honestly torn up about their girlfriends breaking up with them. One went into a really deep depression that took him a really long time to climb out of, and the other one was really sad because she was SUPER hot.
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Old 11-04-2012, 07:05 PM
 
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After me and my ex broke up he started smoking a lot of weed and going to raves and doing E with his friends. I always hated that he did it so he ramped it up into overdrive once he didn't have me 'nagging' him about it. Then, he started dating a girl MUCH more attractive than me and 'accidentally' sent me pictures of her all the time. He also sent me very angry emails about how breaking up was the 'worst mistake I'll ever make' etc. I ended up changing my email and phone number. Turns out it was the best decision I ever made.

As for my guy friends, most of them are pretty happy about breaking up because they get to go out and drink and bang more chicks. A lot of them don't have the cajones to break up with their girls themselves, so they make their lives miserable until their girlfriend breaks up with them. Then, they're happy they're free!

I think I've only had 2 guy friends that were honestly torn up about their girlfriends breaking up with them. One went into a really deep depression that took him a really long time to climb out of, and the other one was really sad because she was SUPER hot.
Why are you friends with men who treat women poorly?
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Old 11-04-2012, 07:25 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Why are you friends with men who treat women poorly?
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
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