Do You Have An Ex That You Still Think About Sometimes? (married, women)
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Yeh...I usually think about everyone I came across in my life at some point. I don't have feelings for anyone that was an ex when I think of them. I just wonder what they are doing.
When I run into some girls that I liked in high school, it triggers some emotions. Knowing that I could have had a chance with them if I was as courageous as am I today. But the past is the past and that opportunity is gone. Take it like a man and move on!
I think about an ex-boyfriend, probably much more than I should.
I think because I still don't have anyone serious in my life, I tend to "idealize" the relationship with my ex-bf and remember the good things about him, rather than how incompatible we were.
At least I've stopped thinking about my ex-fiance the way I used to. He still pops into my dreams at night sometimes though - and I have no idea how to stop that.
Do you, despite if you are single, married, ect, still occasionally think about one of your ex-girlfriends/boyfriends? How long has it been since that relationship ended? Why do you think that you still think of them,was it good physical chemistry, "the one that got away", a great friend? With the advent of so many networking sites(Facebook, Twitter, MySpace), would you ever try to contact that person again?
Ha!....My ex did contact me...and wanted to take me out to lunch..only to tell me, that he was engaged! WTF! I said I was happy for him and at least he found the right person. That night I ate a half gallon of icecream...gawd....
Do you, despite if you are single, married, ect, still occasionally think about one of your ex-girlfriends/boyfriends? How long has it been since that relationship ended? Why do you think that you still think of them,was it good physical chemistry, "the one that got away", a great friend? With the advent of so many networking sites(Facebook, Twitter, MySpace), would you ever try to contact that person again?
Interesting question, I'm curious to read all of the responses..
As for myself, I do think about my ex wife a bit, but we are still close friends. It's been six years since we divorced, but everything happened so smoothly that it wasn't a big deal at all. As to the reason I still think of her? There's a lot of things, so I can't pin anything exactly - she's just really a good friend, and will never be anything more than that. We went through a lot together - from my long hospital stays and countless dr. appointments to her being diagnosed as being Bi-Polar - things like that will bring anyone together. Still, looking back, I don't really consider the time that we were married as being "married" - was more like good friends living together.
As for ex girlfriends, I can't say that I think about them a lot. I do have one on facebook that I occasionally talk to, but it's more of a passing thing. She contacted me, I just went with it. Nice girl and all, but as one grows older, things change. The only time I ever think of any ex's is when a certain song comes on, or I catch a certain scent.. I just kinda smile, shake my head, and laugh at all the crazy things that I've done.
Every now and then I do but not often enough for me to worry about it!
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