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Old 10-21-2009, 11:13 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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I think about some of my ex's now and then. I wonder what would my life be like now if I had stayed with that person. While I don't have any regrets I think it's natural for someone to wonder "what if".
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Old 10-21-2009, 11:17 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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I think about some of my ex's now and then. I wonder what would my life be like now if I had stayed with that person. While I don't have any regrets I think it's natural for someone to wonder "what if".
I completely agree. I think it's just part of human nature to wonder.
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Old 10-21-2009, 06:58 PM
 
Location: Cleveland, OH
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Do you, despite if you are single, married, ect, still occasionally think about one of your ex-girlfriends/boyfriends? How long has it been since that relationship ended? Why do you think that you still think of them,was it good physical chemistry, "the one that got away", a great friend? With the advent of so many networking sites(Facebook, Twitter, MySpace), would you ever try to contact that person again?

I have been divorced for 7 years. We have 2 kids together so I am forced to talk to him. I do still think about my ex - thinking about how to kill him! Not very often though, only when he makes me mad. Which is usually because he said he would do something that he did not do.
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Old 10-21-2009, 10:47 PM
 
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I wouldn't fret...truly believe that things happen for a reason. What if, you would have and she was real bad?
True, and the reason was YOU did them !
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Old 10-21-2009, 10:48 PM
 
Location: southern california
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i did but she is back on the forum.
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Old 10-21-2009, 10:50 PM
 
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when i think of my x all i can think of is what the ***** did to me
and i hope her new b/f does to her what she did to me
hahaha
The question is NEVER what he/she did to me, but rather WHY did I take up with him/her !
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Old 10-21-2009, 10:52 PM
 
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I think the problem is why I left her. I was young and horny and surrounded by beautiful women. No other reason. She was almost perfect. Beautiful. Intelligent. Fantastic in the sack. Compassionate for those less fortunate. I really would love to tell her someday that I am sorry how I hurt her. And then take the face slap that would surely come my way.
If she was all that perfect,she wouldn't have slept with a guy only capable of the level you say you were at.
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Old 10-21-2009, 10:59 PM
 
Location: Edina, MN, USA
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One thing I am very proud of is that we ended our marriage without all the nastiness that happens all too often. While I won't say we're friends, we are friendly to this day - many years later - and have been the entire time. We still have a mutual respect and I believe he would help me in a crunch and I would do the same. I can't even put my finger on one thing that caused us to part - it was a lot of little things. I still hear from him occasionally via email and I always enjoy hearing he is doing oK.
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:36 AM
 
Location: Sunset Mountain
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Only when he pops up on America's Most Wanted.
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Old 10-27-2009, 08:09 AM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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I completely agree. I think it's just part of human nature to wonder.

could that be because it's human nature to want better, instead of being satisfied with what we have? I wonder?
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