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Old 10-26-2009, 05:43 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Ma'am, with all due respect, could it be that you are just paranoid and hypersensitive?
She's probably not paranoid, but I bet she is hypersensitive about it. Black chick with racial issues, probably one of those who refuse to date men of her own race (like many Asian women) but its okay.

Thing about people who post here, you create sort of a "Personality Profile" by all your posts and thread topics in your history. From her "where to find a guy like John Lennon" and "I like Jewish guys" to "People stare at me and my Italian boyfriend" all just says she definitely has issues.
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Old 10-26-2009, 05:43 PM
 
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The white men you are talking about are probably just nice.

Black women are envious of you girl!! They want what you got!

White women and black men are also envious.


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I've noticed that certain people stare in different ways

White women/black men look in a more glaringly type of way
black women look astonished
White men smile and try to start up conversations with us
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Old 10-26-2009, 05:43 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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It's one of these.

1. They are racist and don't approve of your relationship
2. They are checking you out
3. They are checking him out
4. You are imagining it

Without being able to go inside their heads, who knows?

/thread.
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Old 10-26-2009, 05:44 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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cuz 75% percent of people are closet rascist!
and 25% are paranoid and schizophrenic. My guess is that one or both are just hot.


I'd stare cause I'm jealous

I took my GF who is Latino but so dark she looks black with me back to the sticks of the midwest and we got the stare. I could care less but the GF was bothered. I just told here they wish they could have you but you are taken. The main thing is to not let it bother you.
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Old 10-26-2009, 05:45 PM
 
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We don't know that she has issues that are any of your business.

I used to live in two cities where I got discriminated against. And dirty looks was a part of it. I moved to another city and have been there for a few years and have never been given dirty looks other than on a rare blue moon occasion. The acceptance and kindness I receive is amazing.

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Thing about people who post here, you create sort of a "Personality Profile" by all your posts and thread topics in your history. From her "where to find a guy like John Lennon" and "I like Jewish guys" to "People stare at me and my Italian boyfriend" all just says she definitely has issues.
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Old 10-26-2009, 05:46 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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We don't know that she has issues that are any of your business.

I used to live in two cities where I got discriminated against. And dirty looks was a part of it. I moved to another city and have been there for a few years and have never been given dirty looks other than on a rare blue moon occasion. The acceptance and kindness I receive is amazing.
What minority are you, if you don't mind me asking?
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Old 10-26-2009, 05:46 PM
 
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A part of it is envy. That is true.

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and 25% are paranoid and schizophrenic. My guess is that one or both are just hot.


I'd stare cause I'm jealous

I took my GF who is Latino but so dark she looks black with me back to the sticks of the midwest and we got the stare. I could care less but the GF was bothered. I just told here they wish they could have you but you are taken. The main thing is to not let it bother you.
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Old 10-26-2009, 05:47 PM
 
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I do mind. And I will not answer your question. Thanks.

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What minority are you, if you don't mind me asking?
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Old 10-26-2009, 05:48 PM
 
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I have to bring my bf with me everywhere because I get harassed on the streets, we live in Jamaica, queens now but are trying to move.
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Old 10-26-2009, 05:49 PM
 
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How could she be imagining it? If people are staring. They are making facial contact and eye contact with her or him. That is observable. You observe that with your eyes. It's direct observation.

If it was an imagination she would have to be schizophrenic. LOL!!!!!!!!

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It's one of these.

4. You are imagining it[/b]

Without being able to go inside their heads, who knows?

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