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1. How old are you?
2. Granted, he could have offered. I know I would have. But he assumed you had enough friends to help.
3. He's a man - we men need to be asked directly. We're not mind readers.
2 months... well, please specify, is he your boyfriend of 2 months, or have you been dating but you're not BF/GF?
You will always have someone around to ask won't you? My wife knows the deal. Ask me nicely , say thank you nicely , and I'll rent out something big and satisfying.
LOL...no, I haven't always had someone around to ask, but I'm a big girl and I can take care of it myself if there's no helping hand But yeah, I agree. Just ask, otherwise don't complain if nobody volunteers!
Or is it pretty indicative of a selfish person? or he's just using me for the benefits of dating?
yes, it is indicative of a selfish person
give him one more chance to help you with something, this time ask him calmly and clearly and directly, "Can you please help me with xyz? I would really appreciate your help." If / when he says no, you have your answer. He is a total loser. Cut your losses.
it took me longer to learn this, one guy I was dating didn't help me move, then I asked him about helping me move another time (3 hours, one small cross-town trip, piece of cake), he said flat out no, then I was hospitalized and asked him to come see me, he said no again, by then it was really clear that he was a "fair weather" sleazeball, and I stopped seeing him.
give the guy one chance to redeem himself, and you will have your answer whether he is worth seeing again
LOL...no, I haven't always had someone around to ask, but I'm a big girl and I can take care of it myself if there's no helping hand But yeah, I agree. Just ask, otherwise don't complain if nobody volunteers!
Hi Mercury Cougar,
I might even volunteer. I am a perfect gentlemen after all. I would even let you go up the stairs first so I could look at your *ss.
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Originally Posted by seeniorita Grasshopper...first lesson with most men......if you want something, ask for it. Never take for granted he is supposed to know your thoughts. This works if you've been dating for 2 months or married for 20 years!
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Originally Posted by Jays1983
Does that include asking for sexual favors?
Grasshopper, be very careful with that advice...
Absolutely it does. If you can't say it, don't do it. Open and honest all the way.
Sounds like a loser to me!! I'd say, just go on and find someone else in your life. This guy is obviously wasting your time and effort to be with him. If he really cared about you (or loved you), he would have lend you a hand on moving. Possibly driving the truck too (or whatever vehicle you were using to make your move).
Sounds like the kind of guy who has the woman do everything (cook, clean, pay the bills, etc, etc.). He's not worth it. That's normally one of the signs that this guy will make you do everything by yourself if you stay with him....UH-UH!! That would not work for me...Bye-Bye, see ya....
I might even volunteer. I am a perfect gentlemen after all. I would even let you go up the stairs first so I could look at your *ss.
While you're at it, you can pull the tail too
I used to do this to the cows. Some would get violent with the horns.
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, say thank you nicely 
But yeah, I agree. Just ask, otherwise don't complain if nobody volunteers!
