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Old 11-16-2009, 03:11 PM
 
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Shes not evil, she's stupidly insulting everyones intelligence.
Your friend is not your friend, don't ever tick her off or you might be her next victim.

what? I think you will be next. jk
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Old 11-16-2009, 03:51 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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what? I think you will be next. jk
I'm kinda blunt, not to offend.
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Old 11-16-2009, 04:29 PM
 
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yep not evil but a pretty good imitation.when i was a young guy dating my mommy would call this the 30 day sweat.
you see lots of OP like this on CDF, email hacking going thru closet, scanning cell phone and answering machine when he is asleep, sleeping with married guys, its all about him 24/7. and what is the result?? marriage down 50% divorce up 50%. and an avalanche of wine w/o cheese CDF posts, waaaa why cant i find a decent guy?
Brilliantly put.

I hear one time the saying the more you push the more people push back.

Women are really concerned about fencing their man in, but the more they do so the more he runs away.

They don't get it clearly.

The woman the OP has mentioned is dangerous and psycho and needs professional help without delay.
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Old 11-16-2009, 06:23 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Brilliantly put.

I hear one time the saying the more you push the more people push back.

Women are really concerned about fencing their man in, but the more they do so the more he runs away.

They don't get it clearly.

The woman the OP has mentioned is dangerous and psycho and needs professional help without delay.
thank you very kind you got rep, however i regret greatly that from reading the CDF posts for 2 years plus, these things are done to men, they are done without hesitation w/o remorse & often.
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Old 11-16-2009, 06:28 PM
 
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thank you very kind you got rep, however i regret greatly that from reading the CDF posts for 2 years plus, these things are done to men, they are done without hesitation w/o remorse & often.
Huckleberry - so you have seen this kind of thing before? Because I'd never heard of anything so extreme
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Old 11-16-2009, 06:30 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Huckleberry - so you have seen this kind of thing before? Because I'd never heard of anything so extreme
when you got time read the posts. CDF is my window to the world if 1/2 of them are true we are not in kansas any more dorothy --protect toto please.
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Old 11-16-2009, 06:41 PM
 
Location: somewhere close to Tampa, but closer to the beach
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Id sue the pants off of her..that is ludicrous..what a mental case.. I hope someone is warning every other male human the world over..run!, run like hail!! ...That is the lowest of low any female could even contemplate doing..why should she get away with it..oh wait, society just told me to play Simon says..guess id better do so..
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Old 11-16-2009, 07:26 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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no he can do nothing about it. by the time it's all done, she'll probably delete all the evidence anyway - and on top of that - he has no resources - if you read my other posts. I mean - really - what can he do? Nothing. As for her working - yes she works. but she didn't want to let him go - she really loves him - and sometimes you hurt the ones you love the most - at least that 's what this guys mom told her -
I realize your friends with this person, sometimes when it comes to friends
we have blinders on.

Is it possible that during the relationship with this guy she had the same behaviors
and thats why he ended it the way he did? I mean, its possible
she hasn't been completely honest, and your not there to know both
sides of the story.
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Old 11-16-2009, 07:28 PM
 
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thank you very kind you got rep, however i regret greatly that from reading the CDF posts for 2 years plus, these things are done to men, they are done without hesitation w/o remorse & often.
Huck, the coin has two sides, my friend....MANY things are done to women as well...not condoning this womans antics at all but manipulations do not recognize gender.
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Old 11-16-2009, 07:34 PM
 
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She's been a wreck. I was with her the whole time or close by and heard every step the thing is she failed to reach out to her friends until she'd already made some bad choices - when she pushed him away and contacted him the next day - he wouldn't respond so she called him like crazy!!! it was nuts - but she never did it again - gave him space, then went to see him he told her he was happy to see her (after ignoring her for 4 days) and she drove 2 1/2 hours to see him - and spent the night, ordered dinner, had sex - and then ignored her another 3 days - and she drove there again - they were tired, and talked - made bad choices - when they really care for each other - he thinks he must not love her because he put her through so much by ignoring her those first 4 days - but she said she made mistakes too - and they can forgive each other - then the second tiem she saw him and went home sad is when he contacted her the next day from his mothers residence out of state - and she got confused again - she is been single most of her adult life, is a very functional person - a good strong woman - and this has broken her.
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