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I do not care how old he is!!! I care that he lied!!!
Yeah, I get that. Im saying women fib about their age and weight all the time. Men dont usually dump them over it. But if that is the way you feel about it, dump him now and find someone who you are sure will never ever fib, fudge or tell a little white lie.
Well... I had been seeing this guy for a couple of months now, maybe a bit less... idk.
He said he was 35, I believed him... and turns out he is 39!!! he'll be 40 in March!!! ugh... why lie? specially on something so trivial, something that will sooner or later be discovered? I don't think I mind it much, I am almost 28; a 12 year difference is not that bad...
Now I am dissapointed, and a bit upset... don't know what to do, he is nice, and I enjoy his company, but he lied!!! ugh...
what do you all think? should I cut him a break? should I dump him for being a liar?
How much do you weight?
There's my point.
Cut him a break. He's getting older and more worried about women finding him TOO old.
Yeah, I get that. Im saying women fib about their age and weight all the time. Men dont usually dump them over it. But if that is the way you feel about it, dump him now and find someone who you are sure will never ever fib, fudge or tell a little white lie.
"Yes Honey....you do look fat in that dress."
"You really gonna wear that dress?"
"That dress shows your pudges."
"Are you gaining weight?"
Yeah. I think a little fib in the right context is o.k.
Well... I had been seeing this guy for a couple of months now, maybe a bit less... idk.
He said he was 35, I believed him... and turns out he is 39!!! he'll be 40 in March!!! ugh... why lie? specially on something so trivial, something that will sooner or later be discovered? I don't think I mind it much, I am almost 28; a 12 year difference is not that bad...
Now I am dissapointed, and a bit upset... don't know what to do, he is nice, and I enjoy his company, but he lied!!! ugh...
what do you all think? should I cut him a break? should I dump him for being a liar?
Tit for tat. Lie to him that you have only one leg or breast and see what he says
I do not care how old he is!!! I care that he lied!!! from the very beginning I was very clear about the one thing that I wanted in a relationship and that is HONESTY!!
You seem to have your mind made up.
If total honesty is what you expect, theres no point to see him in the future.
I do not care how old he is!!! I care that he lied!!! from the very beginning I was very clear about the one thing that I wanted in a relationship and that is HONESTY!!
My gf I met on-line and she fudged her age because she got tired of only getting contacts from much older guys. She came clean right on the first date or two so it wasn't a big issue (although I gave her some heat about it so she got the point.) and she since realizes it was a mistake.
If she'd kept it hidden for months or so...then I'd at a minimum taken a break from her and most likely have broken up with her.
Well... I had been seeing this guy for a couple of months now, maybe a bit less... idk.
He said he was 35, I believed him... and turns out he is 39!!! he'll be 40 in March!!! ugh... why lie? specially on something so trivial, something that will sooner or later be discovered? I don't think I mind it much, I am almost 28; a 12 year difference is not that bad...
Now I am dissapointed, and a bit upset... don't know what to do, he is nice, and I enjoy his company, but he lied!!! ugh...
what do you all think? should I cut him a break? should I dump him for being a liar?
Ehh it was only a couple months. I would let this one slide but keep your eye open. Think about turning 39 yourself and then you actually get that "over the hill" label....I think I would probably lie a bit too. Thats just a ewwy label to have on yourself. He probably prizes his youth and that is why he is dating a 28 year old.
Ehh it was only a couple months. I would let this one slide but keep your eye open. Think about turning 39 yourself and then you actually get that "over the hill" label....I think I would probably lie a bit too. Thats just a ewwy label to have on yourself. He probably prizes his youth and that is why he is dating a 28 year old.
Oh man! I'm turning 40 in February and I can't wait to be over the hill! LOL Wait, what's on the other side of the hill?
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I care that he lied!!!
