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imagine you don't like mushrooms, for whatever reason, and someone who loved them told you that you are missing out...you care because?????????
From an objective, personal point of view, I've never had a problem with any woman who doesn't know me rejecting me ... at bars, parties, friends of friends, etc. Height, race, face, fingernail length, whatever. Never lost sleep over it and I've been rejected hundreds of times.
But if you really get to know a person and appreciate them for what's inside and then they reject YOU for what's on the outside ... surely people can see how that can burn...
That's totally fine. Just don't be whining about the opposite sex being shallow when you have all these preferences and physical dealbreakers yourself.
It's called hypocrisy. Look it up in Merriams...
(Post wasn't directed to you BTW...)
Ohhhhh....I call the opposite sex whatever I want the same way they call me whatever they want.
Let's be honest here though. Men will touch anything that is available regardless of how they look on the outside. And honestly most men don't care about the inside haha. But women are really picky about the outside and relatively pickier than men about the inside.
If anything, an attractive woman would actually have a more difficult time with me. She will be quickly humbled if she thinks that having a hot face and bod will allow her any 'exceptions'.
Then you're one of the rare ones. I've witnessed my male friends be cheated on, publicly humiliated and more and when asked why he stayed with her his answer was 'she's hot'.
And those guys who DO like dark-skinned women? Oh, that's right, they're too short for you. Whaddayaknow! But it's all 'fair'.
So if a guy is willing to 'meet' you halfway you aren't willing to do the same for him? Well, now we know why you are single. There, that didn't take much effort, did it?
I could say the same thing to men: there are very heavy women that like this kind of man and that but they don't care, because they aren't attracted to those women, so they don't count. If you are not one of these men then so be it. That doesn't change the fact people like what they like and discount what they don't. Obviously you ARE bent out of shape about it, look at the way you're responding, LOL Again, learn to accept what you are as I have had to do. I am single for a number of reasons, none of them had to do with meeting shorter men that wanted to date me and I wouldn't date them, FYI. The men you talk about "meeting me halfway" don't count across the internet. Only in real life and I've never met them, so that's neither here nor there.
While there are alot of women like this, I wasn't. I'm 5'8 and dated a guy that was about 5'5 for a year and half. I really didn't care because he was hott and we got along great.
I think some people are just selfish, I mean, Life opens a door for you to evolve and experience love and happiness, and they just slam it shut!
What a waste.
Agreed. You never know who you're going to meet or what kind of connection you'll have with them. I never understand why anyone limits their opportunities to find something great.
Well I've seen women get smacked around and impregnated and deserted by jerks. And when I see one of my female friends date another jerk who obviously does not give two flying you know what's about her, I ask why. Her reply? He's so talll!!
Then you're one of the rare ones. I've witnessed my male friends be cheated on, publicly humiliated and more and when asked why he stayed with her his answer was 'she's hot'.
See my earlier post referencing stupid men.
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