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I agree and I am completely open finances arent everything. I'm not looking for a man to take care of me I am looking for one to love me! Or should I not say looking, waiting rather for the right one to come along
That's cool, I certainly didn't mean to imply that you were as selective as the type of ladies I was talking about. It's good to know that you are open in terms of about how much $ your hard-working partner can bring to the table.
I agree and I am completely open finances arent everything. I'm not looking for a man to take care of me I am looking for one to love me! Or should I not say looking, waiting rather for the right one to come along
Well if you're "waiting"...then why are you wondering where they are? Unless you plan on relocating....
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well then I need to be meeting you too bad you are in baltimore
Careful with how you word your replies...don't want anyone thinking you started this thread to round up potential dates
Section 8-no
hood rat-hell no
good woman-YES
like I said where are they!
Probably avoiding your attitude…because as a black woman your comments annoy me and if even an ounce of this is detectable in person then you’ve made yourself unapproachable.
My boyfriend is in a fraternity and we’re constantly going to events where there are tons of black men – educated, hard-working, successful, no criminal records black men - and to my surprise the majority of them are single.
Although I do understand the comments of the poster previously who told you’re probably not looking hard enough; I would have to disagree. I think some black women look too damn hard. Every time you leave the house you do not need to be on a man-finding mission; this would probably also explain why you keep finding the wrong ones if you’re constantly out looking for them. Just chill out, enjoy life and let one find you.
Probably avoiding your attitude…because as a black woman your comments annoy me and if even an ounce of this is detectable in person then you’ve made yourself unapproachable.
My boyfriend is in a fraternity and we’re constantly going to events where there are tons of black men – educated, hard-working, successful, no criminal records black men - and to my surprise the majority of them are single.
Although I do understand the comments of the poster previously who told you’re probably not looking hard enough; I would have to disagree. I think some black women look too damn hard. Every time you leave the house you do not need to be on a man-finding mission; this would probably also explain why you keep finding the wrong ones if you’re constantly out looking for them. Just chill out, enjoy life and let one find you.
Wow thats funny because you don't even know rather I have an atttitude or not! I never asked you about your boyfriend or how you got him. Women with men already think they have all the answers and then they end up looking like Tigers wife!
LIKE I SAID, they are out there you just have to go look for them A good black man isn't going to fall down from heaven.
Funny you should say that because thats exactly where they come from! Thats the problem now we are always looking instead of waiting for the partner that was designed just for us! good things come to those who wait.
Well if you're "waiting"...then why are you wondering where they are? Unless you plan on relocating....
Careful with how you word your replies...don't want anyone thinking you started this thread to round up potential dates
Because I have the right to wonder while I'm waiting! and I never said I wasn't up to relocating
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A good black man isn't going to fall down from heaven.